Need some insight on something

[quickdodge®]

I'm actually in shock at the diversity of responses in this thread.......

In a way, I am too. But remember, most of the responses in here are from single people giving opinions on a subject involving marriage. Being in a relationship is being in a relationship, but there is a lot more involvement with a marriage. There's quite a difference.

I am also old school in where I care about other people and their feelings. I don't mean that as an insult to you or anyone else, but I see the younger generation not as caring as the older one. Later, QD.

[Sinfix_15]

In a way, I am too. But remember, most of the responses in here are from single people giving opinions on a subject involving marriage. Being in a relationship is being in a relationship, but there is a lot more involvement with a marriage. There's quite a difference.

I am also old school in where I care about other people and their feelings. I don't mean that as an insult to you or anyone else, but I see the younger generation not as caring as the older one. Later, QD.

You can be devoted to someone and make a mistake. Let's say you've been married 10-15 years and you're 100% in love with your wife and want to be with her forever, but in a moment of weakness you cheat with someone else. You immediately realize it was a mistake and know that you will never do it again. It had nothing to do with your emotional attachment to your wife, it was strictly physical.

I think that it is your's and only your decision on if, when or how you decide to tell your wife. It's not mine and it certainly isnt your coworkers.

[Catnip]

You can be devoted to someone and make a mistake. Let's say you've been married 10-15 years and you're 100% in love with your wife and want to be with her forever, but in a moment of weakness you cheat with someone else. You immediately realize it was a mistake and know that you will never do it again. It had nothing to do with your emotional attachment to your wife, it was strictly physical.

I think that it is your's and only your decision on if, when or how you decide to tell your wife. It's not mine and it certainly isnt your coworkers.

Just a mistake doesn't involve sex with someone else.

[CSquared]

Just a mistake doesn't involve sex with someone else.

lol it takes a lot of effort to "accidentally" put your penis in someone else.

[Sinfix_15]

lol it takes a lot of effort to "accidentally" put your penis in someone else.

I feel like i'm on punked or something.... like you people are intentionally messing with me. There's no way my stance on this is THIS different from everyone else. I dont feel this out of touch in church.





anyways, out of sandpaper and painting shit, gotta make a run. Comment more on this later.

[Sinfix_15]

Just a mistake doesn't involve sex with someone else.

I'm not sure what you mean...... sex can certainly happen on an impulse decision, its not always a premeditated act of "unfaithfulness".

[Catnip]

I'm not sure what you mean...... sex can certainly happen on an impulse decision, its not always a premeditated act of "unfaithfulness".

I've never accidentally had sex.

I've regretted it, but it wasn't on accident. I'm always down to have sex, but unless it's with my woman there's no issue keeping it in my pants... I'm just not down with fucking someone over, especially someone that means something to me and/or someone I've made a commitment to.


If all parties know, and no one is being done wrong... do what you do.

[koukis14]

Just a mistake doesn't involve sex with someone else.

Agreed. Who here hasn't accidentally inserted the most private and sensitive part of their body inside another persons most private and sensitive parts?




So the coworker may not have been satisfied with his wife in some or many ways. Maybe he has expressed his dissatisfaction to his wife and asked her to change to save the relationship. Maybe she is a stubborn bitch that can't handle doing anything outside her comfort zone. Maybe what he is asking is way fucking out of whack. Maybe he wants to have sex more than once a month or maybe he wants her to dress like Alice Cooper and lick his asshole after eating Taco Bell. Or anywhere in between. Maybe he is just a scumbag that fucks anything that wanders into his field of vision and his wife is doing everything he asks and worships the ground he walks on. Maybe the wife is fucking a guy or ten behind his back. Maybe people should mind their fucking business if it doesn't directly involve someone they care about and they don't have all the facts.