Quote Originally Posted by Evadethishonda
I pose a question to you. have ever dated out side your own race? Im not tryin to be a prick just a qusetion. some ppl don't find other ethnic back grounds attractive (to each his own) but when I here some girl squirm when a black guy asks them out and then say they see him as friends and start ignoring him because they feel uncomfortable because he found her attractive and then makes an excuses why she can't hang out and shit. Hell be honest tell the man you don't date black guys or whatever. I know I rather have a girl be completely honest to me(it hurts but still at least she showd me the respect of bein honest) then lie and say she sees him as somethin else or doesnt want to hangout anymore. to me thats fucked up. In the end Girls adn Guys should have a enough sense to be honest. The truth hurts but in time you heal. Dishonesty creates tension and the guy tend s not to be the nicest person in the world when he sees some shit go down. Im by no means perfect and I'am guilty of this shit in the past but onething that I've learned as an adult honesty gets you farther.
not that it matters but yes i have dated outside my race... i grew up in a melting pot (all races) my highschool was primarly black and hispanic.. i dated a black guy for a year.. i have actually dated many ethnicities.. black, white, hispanic everything.. i was engaged to a hungarian.. lol race is not an issue to me.. and it sounds now like your whole rant has changed... i understand that when you read these boards things can be taken out of context.. honestly i have never met/seen you but if you bring my name up (or any of my friends) i am going to get defensive.. i am a goofball and most people know that.. i am on IA to get me through my work day.. as i said before i am in a relationship with an awesome guy... i would never do anything to jepordize that.. but please dont make judgements about people from what smilies they add to their posts.. or other stupid ish.. thats lame..