I'm reviving and old thread but I would like to put my 2 cents in.
I had a gf of 3 years who was a great girl and felt the same way as you.
We broke up, I was heartbroken for about 8 months (no shit). Tried everything to get her back and I grew full of that miserable feeling which in my case was kind of hatred. Luckily for me my looks improved so it was pretty easy to find another. Well, long story short. I learned alot in my new relationship in which I am still in. I thought the same way as far as never settling again. Well my mind changed.
Conclusion:
I wouldn't go into a relationship with the close mindset that it won't last because that will just make you not put any effort in, which will lead to failure. I say don't put your previous experience into a new female that you may meet. It wouldn't be fair for a female to do that to you.
If you are going to do that regardless I would just stay single and fuck around, that way, you don't play with a woman's feelings whose intention might have been to really put their all in and make you happy, considering that many of the females around your age that are dating, are looking for a serious relationship, and someone to settle down with.
That is all, good luck dude.
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