Yeah, it sort of makes you a bad person. It's called respect, you clearly lack any. Which people who lack respect typically are not respected by others. Especially when you feel the need to take the time to post about it on an internet forum, I am guessing just to hear people say either you're a dick or you're a bad ass and give you reps. There's no other real reason to do it other than attention.

People who lost a loved one deserve the right to get to the funeral all at the same time and have a smooth burial. It's typically not because people get "lost."