I need some advice from car people

[Kallide]

Hey there,

Im fairly new to this forum and this is about the only place my boyfriend doesn’t post, so I thought id give it a shot to try and get some different perspective on things. I don’t really have a car I can modify but I do attend some car shows occasionaly and just recently Nopi Nationals. Im just curious as to if im really overreacting to things or if I do have a valid argument. A good bit of his money goes into car things and what not, but not a lot of it goes to other things. I just don’t quite understand it, its almost like he lives and breaths this stuff. Do you other girls have experience with this? I really love him, but sometimes its just really unerving.