Quote Originally Posted by Brett
You need to just accept it. Plain and simple. You arent married to him so you cant try and control what he spends his money on and the hobbies he chooses. Most of us on here are "INTO" this hardcore, and we spend plenty on our cars and that will never change. You cant ask him to change either because if you did and he left behind what he loves to do, he will hate you in the end for it.

My suggestion, and trust me, Im 33, Im old compared to most on here is this..... If you love him, you love ALL of him and that includes his hobby. Its just that simple.

This is more then a hobby to us, its a lifestyle and dropping money into our cars will never stop once its a part of you. But like Derek said, My wife knows there will always be that "Other girl in my life" and thats my car.
You couldnt say it any better than that.. my boyfriend has accepted it.. you need to as well..