Quote Originally Posted by RL... View Post
Give her an ultimatum, basically saying she needs to accept and admit the mistakes she's made, or you will leave her. Why:

1) If she is lying to you about hanging out with other guys, whether romantically or not, it proves she would lie to you about insignificant things, and thus would definitely lie about important things like cheating on you, also you don't want to be with someone who can't admit their own faults and behavior, thats just childish shit right there
2) go with your gut instinct, it will steer you in the right direction, which in this case seems away from her
3) I know breaking up is hard, but only usually because we've become accustomed to being a couple for so long, being single again is literally scary, but its not scary, and yes you can and will find someone better....there is realistically no such thing as the "only one", life is full of potential partners that are suitable for our personalities.
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Ultimatums are for the weak. You cant talk a girl into not cheating on you. If you feel you need to give her an ultimatum, you already know what needs to be done.