You're 23 and you've been in a four year relationship with a girl you haevn't lived near for half of. Dude, life may be short but not THAT short, I'm only 24 and I dated a girl for four years but she practically lived w/me and me moving to GA ended it cause long distance while she was in school wouldn't work to much fighting. Don't sweat it, we're way to young to get caught up in that bs drama. And if there is drama now and no trust now, the whole relationship is drama.