im sorry to hear about the accident, you'll be in my prayers
most of use have lost someone close before. at age nine, i lost my very close uncle at our local lake ( fort yargo), drown because of his legs cramped up while retrieving a volley ball that flew into the water. havnt gone swimming there since. just last month, almost lost my girlfriend, on the way back from the mall, her mother blacked out and smack a telephone pole into 3 piece, fliped the van upside down. ever since, i've havnt speed or drive stupidly


sometime, you just have to let it go and remember them for the great things they did.