Well here goes....

[Halfwit]

do what feels right...(probably doesnt help,but i dont know you,so i didnt want to get all intellectual,and actlike i understand ur feelings)

[Brett]

I think honestly it may do you some good to be honest. You seem to need the direction I think they can give you and make you focus on what your goals are. And you have way to much anger built up in you, I think joining the military and getting through training, etc would get some of your much needed venting of anger out of you.

[Darling Nikki]

I think honestly it may do you some good to be honest. You seem to need the direction I think they can give you and make you focus on what your goals are. And you have way to much anger built up in you, I think joining the military and getting through training, etc would get some of your much needed venting of anger out of you.

Brett you know me so well. lol Its true. Not as bad as it used to be but I still have an anger problem. I want to be able to take it out on the right people too Thank you Brett.

Hey Shai....I always wanted to be a sniper lol but I am a chick won't come true. lol

[Brett]

Im not bashing you, Just saying I think the military would do you good. I think sometimes with all thats gone on in your life you feel lost and dont know what direction to take your life and I think thats how you get into trouble..LOL. I think you doing this will focus your goals and your mind and you can do something you will enjoy at the same time.

[AznTraitor]

I dunno....hard choice...


dont go if you have alot of pent up anger and aggression like Brett is saying...because you will be chewed up and spit out like it was nobodies business, because if you outlash at your drill sgt, or anyone in your basic platoon, you are in for a world of hurt.

What I have also noticed with people who have close family members in the military...they go in like "know it all's" ....if you do go....forget everything you know about the military and do it the way it's taught to you by your drill sgt. They especially hate the military brats, and for the most part, I do too. Cocky bastards (male and females) that act like they know more than anyone else.

Last....do not be of those female soldiers that acts like they have something to prove to the world because they are a woman....I've dealt with more than my fair share of women who have the napoleon syndrome, and all they do is cause more trouble than good, and I'm not saying that you are gonna be one of those types....just dont go in with that mentality and dont pick it up.

that's all I have to say about it....but what you should do is sit down and write a list of pro's and con's of going and not going and weigh your options from there.

[Darling Nikki]

I dunno....hard choice...


dont go if you have alot of pent up anger and aggression like Brett is saying...because you will be chewed up and spit out like it was nobodies business, because if you outlash at your drill sgt, or anyone in your basic platoon, you are in for a world of hurt.

What I have also noticed with people who have close family members in the military...they go in like "know it all's" ....if you do go....forget everything you know about the military and do it the way it's taught to you by your drill sgt. They especially hate the military brats, and for the most part, I do too. Cocky bastards (male and females) that act like they know more than anyone else.

Last....do not be of those female soldiers that acts like they have something to prove to the world because they are a woman....I've dealt with more than my fair share of women who have the napoleon syndrome, and all they do is cause more trouble than good, and I'm not saying that you are gonna be one of those types....just dont go in with that mentality and dont pick it up.

that's all I have to say about it....but what you should do is sit down and write a list of pro's and con's of going and not going and weigh your options from there.

Peter-

whats funny is that is the exact thing my dad told me. Trust me I know I have tons more to learn than what my bros and dad taught me. I think it would be a great experience. I am not wanting to go in bc of my anger trust me its not as bad as it sounds. My father was a Drill sgt, during Vietnam and he was like that when I was growing up so its nothing I am not used to. And I am sure as hell not one of those chicks who need to prove themselves. I want to see whats out there and have structure in my life.

Thanks for the info though. Means a lot.