I learned this in psychology class, but most women usually are attracted to the "bad boy" even if he does start off "nicey nicey". Its something we do without even thinking about it. Its almost as bad as self destruction. You just really need to love yourself first and if you are confident you'll find one that isn't out to screw you over. And don't make excuses for them when they start fucking up, WORST THING EVER TO DO... just throwin it out there, learn from this experience, don't write off all men as the same, spend sometime finding out who YOU are as a person and then when you least expect it the right guy for you will come walking into your life....


real talk...