And by the way, women need to stop seeing these bullshit chick-flicks hollywood keeps vomiting into theaters. What you saw in The Notebook will never happen to you. Any good relationship is going to involve a lot of anger from time to time, it all depends on if both people are willing to deal with it. My g/f has bad anxiety and depression, so she goes nuts on me sometimes and believe me I return it. But I love her to death so I'll put up with the bullshit.