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  1. 01-13-2010, 12:55 PM #1
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    Default I'm on the fence, help push me over...

    I come back from lunch and I have a friend request on facebook from my ex, the only girl I've ever been in love with. We broke up 3 years ago. Nasty break up. Haven't talked much since. Probably haven't heard from her in over a year. Shes got a kid now and engaged to the baby's father.

    So I automatically think she either
    A) Trying to be nosy and get in my business. or
    B) Trying to flaunt her "new life"

    Do I accept her friend request and let the past be the past. Or deny it and avoid the chance of any future drama that could possible arise.

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    Just leave it undecided till you decide.
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    Dude do you really want importatlanta to make that decision.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nemesis View Post
    Kill her
    best reply yet. lol

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    deny it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bdydrpdmazda View Post
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    Ignore that shit...its faceebook. DENY HER ASS!
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    Quote Originally Posted by gtrmonkey View Post
    Dude do you really want importatlanta to make that decision.
    Majority of IA are retards, this I know. But there are some older and wiser folks. I know in the end its my decision. But I just wanted to see what some of you others would do in my position.

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    Uhh...if it'll bother you then don't add her. If it won't bother you, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal.
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    Seriously, whats the point?

    Were you friends on FB before? If yes... Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Do you still communicate with her? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Do you really give 2 shits about her, or her new life? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Is the kid secretly yours? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Is the baby's father your brother? If...yes or no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ARH1192 View Post
    I come back from lunch and I have a friend request on facebook from my ex, the only girl I've ever been in love with. We broke up 3 years ago. Nasty break up. Haven't talked much since. Probably haven't heard from her in over a year. Shes got a kid now and engaged to the baby's father.

    So I automatically think she either
    A) Trying to be nosy and get in my business. or
    B) Trying to flaunt her "new life"

    Do I accept her friend request and let the past be the past. Or deny it and avoid the chance of any future drama that could possible arise.
    Why is this even a choice? Later, QD.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AirMax95 View Post
    Seriously, whats the point?

    Were you friends on FB before? If yes... Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Do you still communicate with her? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Do you really give 2 shits about her, or her new life? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Is the kid secretly yours? If no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Is the baby's father your brother? If...yes or no...Definitely IGNORE THAT SHIT!
    Should have mentioned in the 1st post, she did sleep with my brother after we broke up. I forgot about that for a minute. Think I know my answer now

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    clearly you deny this "benevolent" hooker.
    Way Too Big

    Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ARH1192 View Post
    Should have mentioned in the 1st post, she did sleep with my brother after we broke up. I forgot about that for a minute. Think I know my answer now
    It took that to get your answer? Damn. I still can't believe there was an ounce of hesitancy in this. Later, QD.
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    Quote Originally Posted by quickdodge® View Post
    It took that to get your answer? Damn. I still can't believe there was an ounce of hesitancy in this. Later, QD.
    Way Too Big

    Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

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    Add her, fuck her, then delete her.

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    LMAO @ Tiger, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AirMax95 View Post
    LMAO @ Tiger, lol.
    lol that shits in my sig. you must have them turned off ;o
    Way Too Big

    Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxbckiexx View Post
    lol that shits in my sig. you must have them turned off ;o
    No, it takes a second for him to move, so I probably just miss it.


    That shit is great, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AirMax95 View Post
    No, it takes a second for him to move, so I probably just miss it.


    That shit is great, lol.

    god damn right it is.
    Way Too Big

    Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

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    If it was me, I would accept that shit and try to hit it, again. Afterwards, delete her.

    lol
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    A g00n... is a real life thing. It walks, talks, and shits. A goblin is a fictional character that isn't real life. It's FAKE..... like rotas, y0. Hope that helps.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PURP View Post
    If it was me, I would accept that shit and try to hit it, again. Afterwards, delete her.

    lol
    lol true
    Quote Originally Posted by browningboy7 View Post
    Its just that when I see caps I think of Sammich...And when I think of Sammich I think of a black guy...And when I think of a black guy I think of chicken...And when I think of chicken I realize how fucking hungry I am.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PURP View Post
    If it was me, I would accept that shit and try to hit it, again. Afterwards, delete her.

    lol
    Man, our break up was so dirty. There is not a chance in hell I end up inside of here again.

    I remember having a party after we broke up and I had naked pictures of her on my tv in the living room. If that wasn't bad enough I called her, hammered drunk, and told her she was naked on my big screen hahaha

    damn, i'm such an asshole

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    Quote Originally Posted by ARH1192 View Post
    Man, our break up was so dirty. There is not a chance in hell I end up inside of here again.

    I remember having a party after we broke up and I had naked pictures of her on my tv in the living room. If that wasn't bad enough I called her, hammered drunk, and told her she was naked on my big screen hahaha

    damn, i'm such an asshole
    still have the pics?
    Quote Originally Posted by browningboy7 View Post
    Its just that when I see caps I think of Sammich...And when I think of Sammich I think of a black guy...And when I think of a black guy I think of chicken...And when I think of chicken I realize how fucking hungry I am.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Njobe View Post
    still have the pics?
    Bahahaha only you.
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    Yup lol
    Quote Originally Posted by browningboy7 View Post
    Its just that when I see caps I think of Sammich...And when I think of Sammich I think of a black guy...And when I think of a black guy I think of chicken...And when I think of chicken I realize how fucking hungry I am.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Njobe View Post
    Yup lol
    haha, I have a few. But she is a member, although I don't think she is active anymore and there are people on here who know her. Not only that, at one point in time she was actively pursuing a modeling career and idk if shes still trying to do that but I don't need to be spreading around pictures.

    Last time I did I got a call from the sheriff

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    Quote Originally Posted by ARH1192 View Post
    Should have mentioned in the 1st post, she did sleep with my brother after we broke up. I forgot about that for a minute. Think I know my answer now
    Well there is your answer lol. That's f>cked up she did that, but really this isnt something to express on IA it's your own decision. You were the one intimate w/ her and should know what to do. IA isnt the place to really ask this unless it's to your close friends.
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    If she's an IA slut, then the answer is most definitely NO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ARH1192 View Post
    I come back from lunch and I have a friend request on facebook from my ex, the only girl I've ever been in love with. We broke up 3 years ago. Nasty break up. Haven't talked much since. Probably haven't heard from her in over a year. Shes got a kid now and engaged to the baby's father.

    So I automatically think she either
    A) Trying to be nosy and get in my business. or
    B) Trying to flaunt her "new life"

    Do I accept her friend request and let the past be the past. Or deny it and avoid the chance of any future drama that could possible arise.
    MOTHER FUCKING DENYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its a bad idea to add. please for teh love of god dont ask me how i know. i just do. DONT DO IT!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Greddypacked View Post
    Well there is your answer lol. That's f>cked up she did that.
    Yea, tell me about it. I was furious. But at the same time it helped me get over her.

    Quote Originally Posted by BKgen® View Post
    If she's an IA slut, then the answer is most definitely NO.
    Shes not really an IA slut. I doubt her post count is over 100, plus she doesn't live in the Atlanta area. She was just on here to promote her modeling. She was a Nopi chic for a year or 2 and did some other import modeling.

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    OH my fuck... what's her name IRL??

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    brandoooooooooooooon..... did you do a nopi chic?
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    She fucked your brother.

    You fuck her mom.
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    I don't know any dentists, but I got a dremel and a handful of oxycontin. If you got $50 we can make this work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BKgen® View Post
    OH my fuck... what's her name IRL??
    Kristen

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    Kristine? Lulz
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    I don't know any dentists, but I got a dremel and a handful of oxycontin. If you got $50 we can make this work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by collins View Post
    brandoooooooooooooon..... did you do a nopi chic?
    Not personally.

    Quote Originally Posted by ARH1192 View Post
    Kristen
    Oh, ok.. nvm.

    lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by aguynamedpat View Post
    Kristine? Lulz
    He said Nopi chick -- Not Pampers chick.

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