guy code or whatever..

[yomomspimp06]

didn't read past the first page to know what the deal is....

No, NO, and HELL NO.

You never date a friend's ex. NEVER. If they are truly your friend, then you respect that, period.

Friend's exes should always be strictly off limits, UNLESS you either have, A: the friend's blessing, or B: it was just some menial one-night type of relationship. If they dated for any reasonable length of time or you KNOW that he/she (your friend) had feelings for that other person......then its absolutely "NO".

QFT

[Paul]

I've always looked at it this way... your dick is where your friends dick was... next time you see your friend I would ask HOW YOUR DICK TASTE?... shit is gay man Bros before Hoes!

p.s. unless its megan fox i would change my name to brian to fuck that :idb:

[Ran]

If you're not dating her then she's fair game. Let other people make their own mistakes.

[Hektik]

Only read first page.
Ex-girlfriend : it doesn't matter
Ex-wife : depends on situation
personally I wouldn't mess with either, theirs plenty other girls out there to bring myself some drama over pussy

[roxie911]

You heard me!!

[SplinterLink]

I've always stayed clear of friends Ex's...the drama it brings and the way it can split up groups of friends isn't worth it to me. Some of my friends have done it and made it work...while others havent.

[Kevykev]

50- 90% of IA members are Trashbags man.

Anything other than NO is TOTALLY unacceptable.

You guys who voted anything other that 'no' have 'no' integrity.

[yomomspimp06]

Anything other than NO is TOTALLY unacceptable.

You guys who voted anything other that 'no' have 'no' integrity.

QFT

[ahmonrah]

No, NO, and HELL NO.

You never date a friend's ex. NEVER. If they are truly your friend, then you respect that, period.

Some of you have not been fully cooked yet, so this is where having been around the block a few times, i.e. being old, is advantageous.

Friend's exes should always be strictly off limits, UNLESS you either have, A: the friend's blessing, or B: it was just some menial one-night type of relationship. If they dated for any reasonable length of time or you KNOW that he/she (your friend) had feelings for that other person......then its absolutely "NO".

Explains my vote exactly......thanks for saving me from thumb wrestling w/ my blackberry!

[FAM0U5]

REPS! for people that see my veiw; sorry roxy lol I see your point.. but still.

[MistaCee]

Definitely a no from me.

[roxie911]

REPS! for people that see my veiw; sorry roxy lol I see your point.. but still.

lolol it's whatever. Different people think different things.

PS: It's ROXIE not ROXY

[teh bri]

REPS! for people that see my veiw; sorry roxy lol I see your point.. but still.

you called her Roxy, she's going to kick your ass!

[collins]

No, NO, and HELL NO.

You never date a friend's ex. NEVER. If they are truly your friend, then you respect that, period.

Some of you have not been fully cooked yet, so this is where having been around the block a few times, i.e. being old, is advantageous.

Friend's exes should always be strictly off limits, UNLESS you either have, A: the friend's blessing, or B: it was just some menial one-night type of relationship. If they dated for any reasonable length of time or you KNOW that he/she (your friend) had feelings for that other person......then its absolutely "NO".

I could not have said it any better. Reps if I can!

[collins]

I just had to quote some of the fail in this thread...

I think if you let her go...she's fair game for anyone. Who are you to keep a guy from finding a girl that he might end up being REALLY happy with??

agreed.

plus when you are young, does it really even matter? you need to date/meet different ppl. thats part of the game and education.

I think that's stupid...you can't help who you're attracted to. Plus, in 10 years it's not even gonna matter, so, why dwell on it now?

then you shouldn't have let her go. It's your mistake...don't take it out on your friend. If you REALLY REALLY liked her, you would've found a way to make it work.

Why should it even matter?? If you let someone go, you're saying they're free game for anyone. If you're gonna get hurt by someone talking or flirting with your girl, then you're obviously not over them and probably shouldn't have broken up with them in the first place.

That's not the way I look at it, but it's whatever.

If you let a girl go, you can't control who she goes out and sees. If you're gonna get pissed because she's seeing someone you're not comfortable with, then you shouldn't have let her go.

but once again, that's my just opinion.

And that, my friends, is just the first couple of pages. I wouldve quoted more, but I'm on my iPhone.

[collins]

The whole point of a friendship is supporting their decisions and being there for them, whether its a friend or ex-girlfriend/boyfriend. Everyone in the situation is as guilty as the other. He let her go, she's going to his friend, friend is going for her.

As long as deceit wasn't used by FAM0U5's friend to break them up in the beginning then it shouldn't matter who ends up with her. I bet FAM0U5 hasn't officially communicated with his "friend" or his ex about the situation either. What if she's playing games with FAM0U5 solely to get him to man-up and do "his plan" so she's getting friendly with his friend? What better way to get someones attention than go for someone they know? It's not like that would be the first time to happen around here lol!
.

It comes as no suprise that you're the one saying this... You're just like the other pieces of shit that agree with you.

[G.C]

It really depends what kind of friend you are talking about. If its someone really close to you, you don't do that shit period. No exception.

If its some friend you don't kick it with, your just neutral with, then i think its ok. But still, there will be awkwardness.

[The Creeper]

If you just randomly fucked some girl a couple times, then she is a skank anyways, and she would be fair game. Serious relationship ex's are off limits to friends in my book. If one of my friends fucked my ex, which they couldn't anyways, then I would probably burn their house down. Just saying.

[0p7!mu5]

just sayin....http://www.guyrules.com/gr_view.php3...24&search=Wife

[roxie911]

I just had to quote some of the fail in this thread...
And that, my friends, is just the first couple of pages. I wouldve quoted more, but I'm on my iPhone.

I'm guessing someone fucked your ex by how hard you worked on this to "make your point".

[0p7!mu5]

It comes as no suprise that you're the one saying this... You're just like the other pieces of shit that agree with you.

[b@d @pple]

I.. You're just like the other pieces of shit that agree with you.

something you need to say?

[Evil Goat]

What do the people of IA think? Is it ok to date a friend's ex? given this situation, You been with this girl for a couple of months and whatnot but the realationship was getting serious but things came up.. [living in another state, money, and blah blah.] So of course you being into this girl you talked about her.. a lot. So now that you two are not together your buddy that knows everything about her CAUSE of you is making moves on her but is denieding the actuations... but clearly he does it in front of your face.

this is what I got from him " situational consequences and correlating various relationships. weighing the situation and attempting to find a happy medium. sorting things out in my head in other words."

Poll coming just wait

lol, you're getting your panties in a wad over a girl you can't be with?

i applaud your buddy for banging this chick, we all know it has happened, because she is fair game. you aren't the boss of her, you aren't the boss of your buddy, fuck you and send me videos of your buddy beating that shit to death while you're stuck in another state whining on an internet forum about some throw away chick when you should really be trying to find a bitch to be banging yourself...

stop bitching, get the fuck off the internet, and go fuck some hoes

[collins]

I'm guessing someone fucked your ex by how hard you worked on this to "make your point".

You actually couldn't be farther from the truth. Nothing of the sort has ever taken place with me. If I call you a friend, that holds a lot of weight. I choose my FRIENDS very carefully. I have tons of "buddies" and "acquaintences" but if a friend ever did that, the friendship would cease immediatly because that friend obviously doesn't value my friendship more than a piece of ass.

something you need to say?

Nah, not really lol.

[b@d @pple]

You actually couldn't be farther from the truth. Nothing of the sort has ever taken place with me. If I call you a friend, that holds a lot of weight. I choose my FRIENDS very carefully. I have tons of "buddies" and "acquaintences" but if a friend ever did that, the friendship would cease immediatly because that friend obviously doesn't value my friendship more than a piece of ass.



Nah, not really lol.

your opinion is just that. Yours..

[roxie911]

You actually couldn't be farther from the truth. Nothing of the sort has ever taken place with me. If I call you a friend, that holds a lot of weight. I choose my FRIENDS very carefully. I have tons of "buddies" and "acquaintences" but if a friend ever did that, the friendship would cease immediatly because that friend obviously doesn't value my friendship more than a piece of ass.



Nah, not really lol.

oh yeah...I forgot that someone's views that didn't agree with yours were considered "fail".

I, personally, disagree with that. I don't see how that's considered "fail". It's MY opinion. Quite frankly, if I break up with someone, I'm letting them go because they weren't right for me. They might be right for my friend. Who am I to stop someone from being happy?? You may disagree with that, but I really don't care what you think. I'm not gonna sit there and tell you that your OPINION is wrong.

Get over yourself.

[Jaimecbr900]

oh yeah...I forgot that someone's views that didn't agree with yours were considered "fail".

I, personally, disagree with that. I don't see how that's considered "fail". It's MY opinion. Quite frankly, if I break up with someone, I'm letting them go because they weren't right for me. They might be right for my friend. Who am I to stop someone from being happy?? You may disagree with that, but I really don't care what you think. I'm not gonna sit there and tell you that your OPINION is wrong.

Get over yourself.

I thought you were "over this" like 5 pages ago????

I guess you got your second wind.

[roxie911]

I thought you were "over this" like 5 pages ago????

I guess you got your second wind.

I'm over the topic of the thread, yes. That's not what I'm talking about with collins. I'm talking about the fact that he thinks his opinion is right over everyone else's. That's all.

[b@d @pple]

I thought you were "over this" like 5 pages ago????

I guess you got your second wind.

easy killer

[Jaimecbr900]

I'm over the topic of the thread, yes. That's not what I'm talking about with collins. I'm talking about the fact that he thinks his opinion is right over everyone else's. That's all.

Little red "X" at the top right hand corner of the screen fixes that problem.

[roxie911]

Little red "X" at the top right hand corner of the screen fixes that problem.

What problem?? There's no problem.

[Jaimecbr900]

easy killer

Don't make me get out my pimp hand for you too, biotch!!!!

Now go fix my rat's nest of a car.....pronto, ho.....


JP. I don't need a California smile.....

[b@d @pple]

Don't make me get out my pimp hand for you too, biotch!!!!

Now go fix my rat's nest of a car.....pronto, ho.....


JP. I don't need a California smile.....

N i g g a i will cut you

[Jaimecbr900]

N i g g a i will cut you

[FAM0U5]

lol, you're getting your panties in a wad over a girl you can't be with?

i applaud your buddy for banging this chick, we all know it has happened, because she is fair game. you aren't the boss of her, you aren't the boss of your buddy, fuck you and send me videos of your buddy beating that shit to death while you're stuck in another state whining on an internet forum about some throw away chick when you should really be trying to find a bitch to be banging yourself...

stop bitching, get the fuck off the internet, and go fuck some hoes

Don't sugar coat it, tell me how you really feel..

[§treet_§peed]

It's always been an unspoken thing between my cousins my age and my friends that you get an ok before doing something like this.

[collins]

I'm over the topic of the thread, yes. That's not what I'm talking about with collins. I'm talking about the fact that he thinks his opinion is right over everyone else's. That's all.

I'm really not the pompous asshole you're trying to make me out to be, I promise

[Evil Goat]

Don't sugar coat it, tell me how you really feel..

it's fairly easy man. i apply the "he who cares the least" tactic to every part of my life and so far so good

[FAM0U5]

it's fairly easy man. i apply the "he who cares the least" tactic to every part of my life and so far so good

It's all good man, like I said before Im not hellbent on it lol; plus Im pretty happy how the situation is turning out...

[§treet_§peed]

I'm really not the pompous asshole you're trying to make me out to be, I promise

Collins is a cool guy IRL IMO.