Been blocked a few times some worse than others.
Been blocked a few times some worse than others.
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Originally Posted by speedminded
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Originally Posted by b@d @pple
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Originally Posted by teh bri
Nope...it was DA BRAT who told him in 1997...sorry:D
I didn't tell him that age was just a number. I was agreeing with him.Quote:
Originally Posted by D3UC3S
Because it is. Maturity and Responsibilities are more important that how old they are.
Just Sayin.
Getting cock blocked is usually just a excuse for lack of game. I got cock blocked all the time when I was first in college, my friends were always the life of the party and I was always just hanging around. No one wants to be with the "tag along".
get your game together and it'll stop, but then again a true friend wouldn't get in the way of you talking to a girl knowing you may have a shot.
I wouldn't really agree with that. I have no game, but I do alright with the females. In addition when I go out with my friends I'm usually the one talking to multiple chicks because they are all over the place trying to be seen. At the same time I don't bother with the dumb chicks they always try to pull. As one of my female friends told me, my laid back attitude is in fact game. I don't agree, but who am I to argue with a female that's always putting in a good word for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Reaper
i have to disagree... there is quite a significance in age differences... and it's not just a number. at 19 you do not have the life experience of someone who is 35. maturity has everything to do with life experience.Quote:
Originally Posted by teh bri
granted life experience doesn't mean that you will act mature...but, it does give you a much better foundation.
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Originally Posted by §treet_§peed
embarrassment to the family..
All situations are different, so I disagree with you. I know 13 year olds that have gone through more than most 20 year olds, and 20 year olds than most 35 year olds...Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
I agree with qd. If the girl is interested I'm someone else it's not cockblocking. I mean I don't invite competition either, just to remvoe the possibility she might like the other guy more than me, but if it happens it happens
cant get pissed if a girl is more attracted to someone else
^ well said, very true.Quote:
Originally Posted by Reaper
a technical impossibility...but, i won't start an argument. as you progress in life, you will understand what i mean.. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Catnip
No it's not. And I can call that through actual experience. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
i think you just like to disagree with me. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
I just realized a minute ago that I seem to be having a conversation with you through two different threads. I'm not really trying to be disagreeing with you more so than just trying to give you info from experience rather than from what you think it is. I'm guilty of doing the same thing a lot. If I've never experienced something, I'll just use common sense to rationalize it. Sometimes it's right and sometimes not.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
As in the topic above. Later, QD.
i am not using common sense to rationalize the fact that you can't ascertain certain life experience until you actually live it... and certain life experience can never be had until you age...it's just a fact, not common sense. a 13 year old (using the example stated above) cannot know what it is like to pay a mortgage...to have graduated high school...to have experienced the college lifestyle...to have built a career and reaped the rewards of such... these are just a few examples of literally thousands. this is what i meant by a technical impossibility. my rationale still stands... a 19 year old cannot have the life experience of a 35 year old... sheer amount of time on this earth is the reason why.Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
Lolol. If you say so. Just know that catnip was talking about "going through things" and not life experiences. But you're also not understanding or seeing that there are thousands upon thousands of teenagers that ARE experiencing life experiences that many, many adults never experience. You're not really thinking this through. I know I'm right because I've been there with them. I know a lot of these teenagers personally. You seem to have no idea. I figured at your age, you might know this, but I guess you may have had a pretty good (forgive me for assuming this, but) sheltered life. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
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Originally Posted by stormcrow
You haven't done anything to "deserve" an arguement or make me want to start one with you. I'm just giving you my opinion from some observations that I've seen.
I'm only 19, but I do understand what you're saying. I've learned more about life, this year, than I have in my whole life. Life lessons from certain occurances can bring more wisdom and knowledge, thus maturity in some ways. Someone that has gone through life very sheltered, may be on a great level of maturity, but with no experience in life, it's very limited. In some ways, I was very mature for an 18 year old last year, but I hadn't gone through a lot that most people have by that age. I went through them this year and I'm learning a LOT.
I'm not sure if I even began to describe what I'm saying, because I'm not sure how to put it into words. I think QD knows what I'm trying to say, so maybe he can chime in to elaborate a little better.
And again, not arguing or anything, just exchanging opinions :goodjob:
quite the contrary. but, i don't use my childhood or teenage years as a subjective comparison to my life experience.Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
i'll leave you with this...if you were to date a 19 year old, what would you have in common with them?
But there are some people out there that is my age that have learned a lot by their parents or have been on their own for a while. I honestly think it's just a number. It reflects on how they act as an indivisual and how they act in a mature way, if that makes sense.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
It's obvious that you haven't lived the life that a lot of younger folks have lived. Again, experience is greater in value than reasoning. I have the experience. I'm thinking you don't.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
I'm 40. I wouldn't date a 19 year old. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
i know exactly what you are saying...and in essence, you are proving my point. you are growing and ascertaining life experience. and you will continue to do so.Quote:
Originally Posted by Catnip
and certainly, you may have had experiences that even a 90 year old like QD has never had the pleasure of...but, this doesn't equate to true life experience. it's just individual experiences where life experience is a sum of its parts...
and argument was a poor choice of words on my part... my bad.
btw, i know QD isn't 90...yet. ;)
why not? you agree that age is just a number. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
i will pose the same question to you as i did QD... if you were to date a 35 year old, what would you have in common with him?Quote:
Originally Posted by teh bri
Quote my agreement. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
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Originally Posted by stormcrow
I think you're missing my point that you can have a 40 year old and a 20 year old on the same maturity level due to experiences had and missed experiences. 10 and 80 isn't plausible IMO, like you said, but I think you understand what I'm saying, also.
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Originally Posted by stormcrow
My mom was 17 and my dad was 29, when they started dating.
Maybe you'd like to ask them? lol
it was inferred with all of the "kids can have the same life experience" talk...;)Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
i think we will have to agree to disagree... even with missed singular experiences, a 20 year old cannot have the same life experience as a 40 year old...the 20 extra years of time define this as fact. the 40 year old would have had to live in a vacuum.Quote:
Originally Posted by Catnip
i think we can all guess what foundation that was based on.. ;) not that i am hating! *lol*Quote:
Originally Posted by Catnip
Inferred by you. Not by me. I knew exactly what I was talking about. If I didn't post it, I didn't say it or infer it. I had no comment towards the "age" thing. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
Forty and twenty is a little much to me. My wife is ten years younger than I. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by Catnip
fair enough. this does beg the question, though. given your opinions on age and life experience in general, do you feel that someone 19 years of age could have anything in common with someone your age?Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
and this is not a trap.
Sure. Not life-altering similarities. Just social common bonds; ie, music, movies, trivial pursuits like that. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
i think you meant 'e.g.:'Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
and i will and do agree. though, these are not substantial enough to promote a solid romantic bond. i know you didn't argue this point, i am merely thinking aloud.
Dating someone 40 years older than you is kinda gross, so i see what you mean there.. 10 years or 15 isn't such a big deal.. Don't wanna pull the "Hogan ish." :lmao:Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
eg is what I meant, yes. Exactly what I meant. Not enough to promote "togetherness."Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
Yeah. Ten years is about max for me. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by teh bri
Same here. :goodjob:Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
cock blockers just play with their own dicks to much, that when they see a chick & another dude together, they go & block their cock!!
just wanna kinda get my opinion in here, and im not that intelligent so bare with me cause im not gonna use all those big words or the correct punctuation. i think what qd and catnip are trying to say by "life experiences" is hard things people go through at a young age that some 40 yr olds havnt even been through. i will go out on a llimb and use myself for example, i seen my brother get shot when i was 3 in a drug deal gone wrong that my father brought us along on, life changing enoung for you? and people can "mature" and grow up in just a few years. im not all the way grown yet but i bet if you ask qd how much i have changed over the past year....well. im sure he would have alot to say. and btw not looking for no pity by my little story above so that isnt why this post was made cause i know someone is gonna come in and say quit whining or something along those lines.Quote:
Originally Posted by stormcrow
just my input though.:goodjob: