I work two jobs and still can't keep up with the bills. Thank god the cars are paid off!!! I feel you on the kid thing I have two myself and they are expensive, unfortunately we had them when things were going good and now with the bad economy its getting harder and harder to give them everything they need to succeed. Job number three may be on the horizon!!!!!!!!! Oh well you do what you have to for your family. My kids are my life I wouldn't be half the man I am without man. I will do whatever it takes to provide for them!!!