And what is so messed up about the situation is him and the girl are still not back together but because he likes to consider himself a "hopeless romantic" he WILL do ANYTHING it takes to have her back. That includes his world TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY evolving around her! He won't even spend the night at a friends house because she is a girl for the fact that if his ex finds out, she will possibly be mad. YOU TWO ARE NOT EVEN TOGETHER and no guarantee you will ever be together again! I mean everyday activities like getting a job, moving, hanging out, whatever, he has to think about how it will affect her and if they will get back together. He lives in another universe that is not ours. I've never heard someone so delusional in my life!