This thread shows vividly the big problem with the Pepsi-MTV-texting instead of talking generation of today. Some of you have non-realistic expectations about what "love", "relationships", and an ideal "partner" is. 
 
 
I'm not going to type my typical wall of text, unless yall make me to, because I'm certain it will fall on deaf ears. But I will say this:
 
You get treated EXACTLY how you ALLOW someone to treat YOU. Period. 
 
Ladies want a "bad boy" because they have this fantasy in their head that since they saw well endowed Tommy Lee on TV or some filthy rich worthless rapper on "cribs" talking about their alligator skinned couch....then THAT is what I must have or want. Then those same ladies complain when that same "bad boy" they fantasized about for so long lives up to his name/reputation......DUR DUR....

 Just WHO'S just as much to blame there???? 
 
There's an old song that says, "....looking for love in all the wrong places, looking for love in too many places..." Far too often women in this new, "I don't need a man, but I want one anyway" society aren't true with themselves FIRST. Stop the game playing and control the things that YOU can FIRST. If you want a man, then act like it. If you dont, then act that way too. All these "rules" to dating. All these fantasies about un-realistic things and expectations are nothing more than a recipe for disaster and heart aches. 
 
My departing shot is this: Ladies, put on your big girl panties on and stop pointing the finger at the man for everything. Everytime you point a finger at someone, you have 3 fingers pointing back at you. Try it and see. 
