I feel I need to get this out...

[Echonova]

Well.. I have a huge problem... I am 18 with a 1 year old, and a dead beat baby momma that is old enough for anything(24). She just skipped out on us a couple nights ago. No calls and no answers. So what am I supposed to do? DFCS is giving me custody when legitimation goes through court(I am excited). And I do have a car, job, and housing. But a Baby!? And I say she is a dead beat because she is 24, no job, no steady housing, and another 4 year old she never makes effort to see. All she does is lie, cheat, and drink...

So.. What should I do??

Oprah is busy right now. Come back later.

I work at FedEx loading trucks(by hand), And I am now at my moms, But that child support sounds good.

You mean robots don't unload the truck for you?

But you get money just for having kids?? I want in!!

I already did(this is to J). I wasn't going to make any big decisions until I knew... But i know she's mine...

And I didn't know there was that Obama thing...

Oh looky, chance to get more money!! This kid thing is awesome!!

It all depends on the mood I'm in... Someone once told me "You can be anyone online". I wouldn't act like this in person.. I'm a real calm guy with a lot of morals and respect... I should apologize to myself about the way I portray myself here on IA... It's not really who I am... But I've been through a lot, and I'm trying to forget, and the best way is to see my little girl huge smile... It's funny, When I'm changing her diaper, in the middle of doing so, I stop... and give her a blank, straight face... and she gets the biggest grin and puts her hands on her face and starts laughing...

Awwww... Then you hand her back to your mom and go smoke a cigarette. Good job

That just pissed me off... I fuckin love my child more than you would ever love anybody... I know for a fact that you've never had a son or a daughter before... come back when you get one. No offence...

No offense (learn to spell correctly, I heard it's important when looking for a job), but you have no fucking clue what you are in for. Your whore of a baby momma took off and all you've done is post on IA. Try spending some fucking time with your kid that you love so much. Personally I have grown weary of your life story with just the little nuggets you've posted already.

When my first wife bailed on me... I was 24yrs old, making 65k a year and had all the support I could ask for and it was still hard as hell. Wait 'till you actually have to do some of the hard stuff.

Last thing I have to say... I am taking responsibility for what I've done. I was 16 when I got her pregnant, but I STILL wouldn't change a thing...

Awesome.