I feel I need to get this out...

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i can see y. some circumstances it is very necesssary.(drug addicts, lack of parents etc)

Exactly.

but he is capable and has family support. Adoption would be the pussy route here.

Do you know this dude (the OP) personally. All we know is what we see on here. He presents himself well and I hope he is as good as he is posting in this thread. You see? Later, QD.