Liz - While it's a nice gesture, and some women need it, a lot don't. If someone wants to do something they will, and on their own accord. I'm whatever when it comes to this sort of stuff, but then again I see him all the time, we talk about our day through email, but on days when I am busy as crap I don't talk at all. Even if I get a text/email. I got bills to pay and he can wait to tell me when I get home, but for the most part it's understood. He tells me all the time so I imagine thats why it doesnt bother me.