Attn: Dudes in a Relationship!!!

**blaknoize** · 12-02-2009, 05:46 PM

um, my girls phones Verizon and its fail and its behind on payments 2months so she cant get txt. So... what u want me to do LIZ?!

**Catnip** · 12-02-2009, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by blaknoize

um, my girls phones Verizon and its fail and its behind on payments 2months so she cant get txt. So... what u want me to do LIZ?!

Get a chick that's worth a shit.

lolol

**teh bri** · 12-02-2009, 06:26 PM

Originally Posted by SicStang03

Just texted my women... If I don't get any lovin tonight I shall keel you for getting my hopes up

oh Justin!

**t3ggr** · 12-02-2009, 06:41 PM

Liz - While it's a nice gesture, and some women need it, a lot don't. If someone wants to do something they will, and on their own accord. I'm whatever when it comes to this sort of stuff, but then again I see him all the time, we talk about our day through email, but on days when I am busy as crap I don't talk at all. Even if I get a text/email. I got bills to pay and he can wait to tell me when I get home, but for the most part it's understood. He tells me all the time so I imagine thats why it doesnt bother me.

**blaknoize** · 12-02-2009, 07:05 PM

Originally Posted by Catnip

Get a chick that's worth a shit.

lolol

dont talk out of sync boy. My girl is worth much more to me than to u, so watch ur mouth

**MidLifeCrisis** · 12-02-2009, 08:02 PM

Originally Posted by Catnip

Get a chick that's worth a shit.

lolol

Hahaha. Whatever man! You know if you were dating some girl that was a 7 or better who had a fuked cell phone account you'd still kick it with her!

**Catnip** · 12-02-2009, 08:05 PM

Originally Posted by MidLifeCrisis

Hahaha. Whatever man! You know if you were dating some girl that was a 7 or better who had a fuked cell phone account you'd still kick it with her!

lol. STFU with your logic

**MidLifeCrisis** · 12-02-2009, 08:07 PM

Originally Posted by Catnip

lol. STFU with your logic

www.freecreditreport.com

**Firefightin_tC** · 12-02-2009, 08:31 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

Relationships are gay... not as gay as marriages, but definitely gay.

Fellas - do not give in to this shit. What you have done is create more problems for yourself.

1) She's on the phone RIGHT NOW w/ Heather saying "Hmmmm --- idk girl... he texted me outta the blue. He did something wrong." And Heather's dumb ass is saying "Yeah girl - I bet he has." Your dumb ass woman will listen to Heather although there is ZERO records in the history of Earth of Heather maintaining a relationship longer than a month. Men have a routine that women learn - when you BREAK that routine, you get fucked. Like a bee-line to the shower as soon as u walk in from fucking Heather (LOL) when you normally wait until after dinner to shower. She KNOWS something is up. Breaking routines is how we men get busted. If you never text 1st - DON'T START today. You haven't opened her car door in 7 years? Good - keep it that way.

2) Now you're on the hook. B/c if a week goes by w/out you texting AGAIN be prepared for "Oh, so what's up TODD?? The last time you texted me 1st was 02 December @ 11:46 - I remember b/c it was raining and you haven't done it SINCE. It's now 28Dec and I have to message you 1st ALL the time. Do you not love me anymore? Show some initiative!!" Way to go hero.

3) To all of you who did this shit you just took RELATIONSHIP advice from a girl. Fail.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

Once Baby J speaks troof.

I need to join his church.

Random will soon become expected and the minute you don't...you're boned and she'll start crying about why you don't text her first anymore.

**RL...** · 12-02-2009, 09:10 PM

Originally Posted by LizBiz

Have you heard from your significant other today?

If not...text her RIGHT NOW!!!

Just say "Hey" or just throw out a "Thinking about you"

I hear girls talk about ALL THE TIME "he don't ever text me first" or "he don't even care" so nip that shit in the bud right now. DO EET!!!! You will be surprised what a simple random "thinking about you" text can do. You don't actually have to think about her to tell her that. But we don't know that!

If you send the text and don't get some lovin tonight you might wanna re-evaluate your woman. Lol

Women like assholes, there is no reason to be nice...

**teh bri** · 12-02-2009, 09:47 PM

This thread brings the lulz.

**VooDooXII** · 12-02-2009, 10:02 PM

Originally Posted by NissanTun3r

Women like assholes, there is no reason to be nice...

Yea that.

**LizBiz** · 12-03-2009, 12:19 AM

Ya'll listen to these fools if you wanna. I got reps and PMs from the ladies to prove you wrong. Just sayin. Half of ya'll know ya'll sent a damn text too.

**Firefightin_tC** · 12-03-2009, 01:22 AM

No text.

**mchschase27** · 12-03-2009, 01:30 AM

LOL this thread = WIN.

**Got Milk?** · 12-03-2009, 01:38 AM

..

**man** · 12-03-2009, 01:39 AM

I text my girl 1st sometimes anyway. Gotta stay a step ahead of the game people, lol

**Benefit** · 12-03-2009, 01:40 AM

gay thread

**DB4LYFE ™** · 12-03-2009, 01:42 AM

Originally Posted by man

I text my girl 1st sometimes anyway. Gotta stay a step ahead of the game people, lol

~DB4LYFE

**Okie_doke.** · 12-03-2009, 02:36 AM

What the fuck is the point in being nice???

**Vteckidd** · 12-03-2009, 02:44 AM

Originally Posted by LizBiz

Ya'll listen to these fools if you wanna. I got reps and PMs from the ladies to prove you wrong. Just sayin. Half of ya'll know ya'll sent a damn text too.

Please list their names so I can put them on the "needy whiny self absorbed selfish bitch list" That i am compiling and I can stay the fuck away from them

**Firefightin_tC** · 12-03-2009, 02:58 AM

^^^ x2

**BKgen®** · 12-03-2009, 07:45 AM

Originally Posted by stillaneon

SHUT UP LIZ

i concur

lol

**StreetHazard** · 12-03-2009, 07:49 AM

Women need to come to the realization that men don't live in a fucking romantic comedy, OR have our relationship illustrated in the front of a fucking hallmark™ card.

We don't hold hands like Adam and Eve in some bullshit Utopian scene. We don't "ohhhh" and "ahhhh" at kittens playing with a ball of yarn. And we certainly don't give a fuck about sending texts to a self absorbed bitch that is is only happy when she feels her boyfriends life completely rotates around HER own insecurities.

Now....please tell your delusional friends to politely go fuck themselves. and they may have a shot at a real man when they finally climb that emotional and intellectual curb of being a needy, self-absorbed, arrogant, spoiled rotten fucking cunt.

**ilovemyhonda.** · 12-03-2009, 08:13 AM

Oh my................................................ .... IT ISN'T ABOUT BEING NEEDY! This thread was taken kinda the wrong way.

**AdriSciontC** · 12-03-2009, 08:41 AM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

Oh my................................................ .... IT ISN'T ABOUT BEING NEEDY! This thread was taken kinda the wrong way.

I agree, but it really isn't about being needy (to some girls it is) girls just want to feel loved (just because you and your girl are in a relationship, "girlfriend/boyfriend" title, doesn't mean the girl knows how you feel) Girls want to feel "loved", text messages the moment you wake up or every so many hours is "needy", I just had to deal with an EX like that... and I'm a girl... I don't want to have to "check in" every 5 seconds, if I am thinking about someone, yea I will let them know, and I think this is more what the thread is about. If you're thinking about your woman... and ladies, your man, let your significant other know, its good to know you're thought of. Not to be text messaged every 30 mins or so, we all have important sh*t to do that doesn't involve hopping on the phone when you get a message....

**Dr.G35** · 12-03-2009, 08:45 AM

Originally Posted by civicgurlie

I agree, but it really isn't about being needy (to some girls it is) girls just want to feel loved (just because you and your girl are in a relationship, "girlfriend/boyfriend" title, doesn't mean the girl knows how you feel) Girls want to feel "loved", text messages the moment you wake up or every so many hours is "needy", I just had to deal with an EX like that... and I'm a girl... I don't want to have to "check in" every 5 seconds, if I am thinking about someone, yea I will let them know, and I think this is more what the thread is about. If you're thinking about your woman... and ladies, your man, let your significant other know, its good to know you're thought of. Not to be text messaged every 30 mins or so, we all have important sh*t to do that doesn't involve hopping on the phone when you get a message....

im thinking of you.....................................not in the creepy way of course

lol. Just letting you know.

**ilovemyhonda.** · 12-03-2009, 08:51 AM

Originally Posted by civicgurlie

I agree, but it really isn't about being needy (to some girls it is) girls just want to feel loved (just because you and your girl are in a relationship, "girlfriend/boyfriend" title, doesn't mean the girl knows how you feel) Girls want to feel "loved", text messages the moment you wake up or every so many hours is "needy", I just had to deal with an EX like that... and I'm a girl... I don't want to have to "check in" every 5 seconds, if I am thinking about someone, yea I will let them know, and I think this is more what the thread is about. If you're thinking about your woman... and ladies, your man, let your significant other know, its good to know you're thought of. Not to be text messaged every 30 mins or so, we all have important sh*t to do that doesn't involve hopping on the phone when you get a message....

Exactly, it was more so to say if you have a significant other and they are your mind, let them know. Just let the person know you care. Nice gestures are always great. Especially if you are really "inlove" and you are having a bad day and your other half texts you and says something sweet it kinda cheers you up. We aren't talking about every 5 minutes. Maybe not everyday either.

**bdydrpdmazda** · 12-03-2009, 08:53 AM

I always tell my bitch im thinking about her

**AdriSciontC** · 12-03-2009, 08:53 AM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

Exactly, it was more so to say if you have a significant other and they are your mind, let them know. Just let the person know you care. Nice gestures are always great. Especially if you are really "inlove" and you are having a bad day and your other half texts you and says something sweet it kinda cheers you up. We aren't talking about every 5 minutes. Maybe not everyday either.

I got you on this one. I think the guys took it as "checking in" or being needy hehe

**Dr.G35** · 12-03-2009, 08:54 AM

wut you looking at?

**AdriSciontC** · 12-03-2009, 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by Dr.G35

im thinking of you.....................................not in the creepy way of course

lol. Just letting you know.

Thank you for thinking of me. I feel special! hehe even if it is the creepy way...

**ilovemyhonda.** · 12-03-2009, 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by civicgurlie

I got you on this one. I think the guys took it as "checking in" or being needy hehe

Yeah, not so much what it was meant to be though. I guess if you been with someone for a long time, you don't feel the need to do this. I guess if it is "fresh love" it done more often.

**Dr.G35** · 12-03-2009, 08:58 AM

Originally Posted by civicgurlie

Thank you for thinking of me. I feel special! hehe even if it is the creepy way...

Anytime!!!

**quickdodge®** · 12-03-2009, 09:04 AM

Originally Posted by civicgurlie

girls just want to feel loved (just because you and your girl are in a relationship, "girlfriend/boyfriend" title, doesn't mean the girl knows how you feel) Girls want to feel "loved", ...

Holy fucking shit stick on a lifeboat!

Fucking stupid is what that is. The fact that I work 40-60 hours a week and keep a nice house for her (and the children) to live in and keep a new car in her driveway isn't good enough? The fact that I come home only to her every night isn't good enough? I do all this without her having to lift a finger in the workforce isn't good enough? My wife hasn't drawn a paycheck since 2000. If the broads don't think of that as love, then they have no clue as to what love really is. I'm not going to do all that if I don't love the girl. Love is not Sweet Alabama or What Women Want. It's not some romantic comedy some writer and director conjured up to boost sales of Kleenex and get women to wishing their life was like that.

It's real life.

This doesn't even include the GF/BF thing. You're not married and you expect this shit or you don't feel loved? If I were a dude and you were already that insecure, then you can bet we'd never be married.

I'm not saying that it's a bad thing to randomly call and say something to your other, but for that other to expect it is what is crap. For the bullshit "I don't feel loved" excuse is pure, fresh out the hole bullshit. I tell her when I leave for work in the morning and I tell her whenever we are on the phone and we're getting of it as a goodbye.

Haha. Damn. Later, QD.

**AdriSciontC** · 12-03-2009, 09:08 AM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

Holy fucking shit stick on a lifeboat!

Fucking stupid is what that is. The fact that I work 40-60 hours a week and keep a nice house for her (and the children) to live in and keep a new car in her driveway isn't good enough? The fact that I come home only to her every night isn't good enough? I do all this without her having to lift a finger in the workforce isn't good enough? My wife hasn't drawn a paycheck since 2000. If the broads don't think of that as love, then they have no clue as to what love really is. I'm not going to do all that if I don't love the girl. Love is not Sweet Alabama or What Women Want. It's not some romantic comedy some writer and director conjured up to boost sales of Kleenex and get women to wishing their life was like that.

It's real life.

This doesn't even include the GF/BF thing. You're not married and you expect this shit or you don't feel loved? If I were a dude and you were already that insecure, then you can bet we'd never be married.

I'm not saying that it's a bad thing to randomly call and say something to your other, but for that other to expect it is what is crap. For the bullshit "I don't feel loved" excuse is pure, fresh out the hole bullshit. I tell her when I leave for work in the morning and I tell her whenever we are on the phone and we're getting of it as a goodbye.

Haha. Damn. Later, QD.

LOL ask her and see if she likes something special every once in a while.... key phrase ASK HER.... and I'm not talking about physical "special things", you may be surprised by her response. I don't think this thread is stating "You don't love your woman if you don't text her and let her know".... just it makes a girl/woman feel special to HEAR that you think of her.... there are many men out there who provide for their family and screw the secretary on the side (not love IMO even though they're being provided for)...Not saying you do that, but just making a point...

Glad to hear you're doing well for yourself and your fam!

**Njobe** · 12-03-2009, 09:11 AM

Originally Posted by Dr.G35

im thinking of you.....................................not in the creepy way of course

lol. Just letting you know.

lolol :idb:

**ilovemyhonda.** · 12-03-2009, 09:17 AM

Originally Posted by Njobe

lolol :idb:

:boobies:

**Dr.G35** · 12-03-2009, 09:19 AM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

:boobies:

im down if she is

awhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! !!!!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

got to go to work later,DG.

jk QD.

**Mike Lowrey** · 12-03-2009, 09:25 AM

I already send my women a text every day. I tell her she better be naked and ready to blow me when I get home, like a good wife should.

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