Attn: Dudes in a Relationship!!!

[BABY J]

QD --- my n1gg@.

Look. There is nothing wrong w/ finding some1 to go through life with. But it's SIMPLY that. Consider it a permanent (if you're lucky) roomate. They are NOT super-human. They are NOT infallable. They are NOT larger than life. Mates come w/ their own set of issues that you likely would not have to deal w/ if you were single. Some people are worth those sacrifices - some are not.

I'm w/ QD --- if you've told the last 6 people that you "dated" that you love them... you're gay. Love doesn't work that way 1st of all.. and 2nd of all Love is something you DO, not something you SAY. You're "dating" - hanging out - having sex - great. Let it be that. If it grows to being engaged then step it up to all the grown-man shit. But PACE YOURSELF. This site is full of KIDS who know nothing about relationships and air your dirty laundry out there and a new bf/gf every goddamned week and a "what should I do" thread every month. LOL.

SLOW THE FUCK DOWN!!! GET SOME PUSSY... SUCK A FEW DICKS. IT'S OKAY TO NOT TAKE YOURSELF SO DAMN SERIOUSLY.

The lil "messages" have their place - but SPACE in a relationship is more important than almost anything. It's O-FUCKIN-K for your man/woman to miss you during the day AT WORK. It's just 8 hours ... re-lax... I mean I JUST saw u this morning... I can handle myself till we get home. If you're that co-dependant no wonder your relationships all end up in the tank.

[AirMax95]

QD --- my n1gg@.

Look. There is nothing wrong w/ finding some1 to go through life with. But it's SIMPLY that. Consider it a permanent (if you're lucky) roomate. They are NOT super-human. They are NOT infallable. They are NOT larger than life. Mates come w/ their own set of issues that you likely would not have to deal w/ if you were single. Some people are worth those sacrifices - some are not.

I'm w/ QD --- if you've told the last 6 people that you "dated" that you love them... you're gay. Love doesn't work that way 1st of all.. and 2nd of all Love is something you DO, not something you SAY. You're "dating" - hanging out - having sex - great. Let it be that. If it grows to being engaged then step it up to all the grown-man shit. But PACE YOURSELF. This site is full of KIDS who know nothing about relationships and air your dirty laundry out there and a new bf/gf every goddamned week and a "what should I do" thread every month. LOL.

SLOW THE FUCK DOWN!!! GET SOME PUSSY... SUCK A FEW DICKS. IT'S OKAY TO NOT TAKE YOURSELF SO DAMN SERIOUSLY.

The lil "messages" have their place - but SPACE in a relationship is more important than almost anything. It's O-FUCKIN-K for your man/woman to miss you during the day AT WORK. It's just 8 hours ... re-lax... I mean I JUST saw u this morning... I can handle myself till we get home. If you're that co-dependant no wonder your relationships all end up in the tank.

Must focus on the bold here people. This is good, GREAT information.

[Vteckidd]

Must focus on the bold here people. This is good, GREAT information.

agreed the Prophet hath spoken.

Problems i have with women today:
1) Just cause we have sex doesnt mean we are SERIOUS
2) Just cause we go on a date doesnt mean we are TOGETHER
3) Just cause I talk to other girls doesnt mean im CHEATING especially if you fall in category 1 and 2
4) Dont be so needy. If i like you i will chase you and you will know it. you have to peak my interest not drive me away by trying to keep tabs on me or smothering me
5) DONT TELL THE FUCKING WORLD OUR bUSINESS.

Thats about it, but then again ive been dating younger girls , so i guess i get what i deserve

[EL42]

agreed the Prophet hath spoken.

Problems i have with women today:
1) Just cause we have sex doesnt mean we are SERIOUS
2) Just cause we go on a date doesnt mean we are TOGETHER
3) Just cause I talk to other girls doesnt mean im CHEATING especially if you fall in category 1 and 2
4) Dont be so needy. If i like you i will chase you and you will know it. you have to peak my interest not drive me away by trying to keep tabs on me or smothering me
5) DONT TELL THE FUCKING WORLD OUR bUSINESS.

Thats about it, but then again ive been dating younger girls , so i guess i get what i deserve

[PSINXS]

agreed the Prophet hath spoken.

Problems i have with women today:
1) Just cause we have sex doesnt mean we are SERIOUS
2) Just cause we go on a date doesnt mean we are TOGETHER
3) Just cause I talk to other girls doesnt mean im CHEATING especially if you fall in category 1 and 2
4) Dont be so needy. If i like you i will chase you and you will know it. you have to peak my interest not drive me away by trying to keep tabs on me or smothering me
5) DONT TELL THE FUCKING WORLD OUR bUSINESS.

Thats about it, but then again ive been dating younger girls , so i guess i get what i deserve

/thread. so many girls cant understand this concept.

[BABY J]

agreed the Prophet hath spoken.

Problems i have with women today:
1) Just cause we have sex doesnt mean we are SERIOUS

DING DING DING!!!!!

GIRL: "So Baby J... that was awesome sex. SO what are we?"
BABY J: Ummm... tired??

I mean FOR REAL. FUCK some1 b/c you want to FUCK them. Not b/c you think it gets you anywhere. I'm 30 years old... do you REALLY think you can fuck me THAT good where I want you? If I want you it's b/c I want you - not b/c you got a fat booty or bc you can roll around in the sac like a porn star.

GETTING a mans attention and KEEPING a man's attention is 2 different things. You might get my attention w/ the above for a short period of time - but you better be able to close the deal and bring a little more something to the table than your panties or all bets are off.

2) Just cause we go on a date doesnt mean we are TOGETHER

WOW -- are you from like a WHOLE NUTHER planet where they make sense and shit?? Amazing!!!

Guess what - a man's gotta eat. So does a woman. Well shit, why does it have to be more than that?? I mean shit maybe I just wanna put a table in between us w/ some fucking food on it. Is that okay with you or does it mean I love you? I mean damn - can I feed a bitch?? YES -- sometimes it's THAT simple.

3) Just cause I talk to other girls doesnt mean im CHEATING especially if you fall in category 1 and 2
4) Dont be so needy. If i like you i will chase you and you will know it. you have to peak my interest not drive me away by trying to keep tabs on me or smothering me
5) DONT TELL THE FUCKING WORLD OUR bUSINESS.

Thats about it, but then again ive been dating younger girls , so i guess i get what i deserve

My n1gg@!! If I was gay I'd soo be tryna hit that - LOL. Spoken like some1 who has a few tablespoons of sense.


It's simple people. Just don't be idiots. They call it DATING for a reason ... it's where people are TRYING TO GET TO KNOW EA OTHER and seeing if there is enuff substance there to GET TO the point of being an item. Take your time w/ the DATING part, or the RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE part will show who didn't date long enuff and keep things light and fun long enuff.