QD --- my n1gg@.

Look. There is nothing wrong w/ finding some1 to go through life with. But it's SIMPLY that. Consider it a permanent (if you're lucky) roomate. They are NOT super-human. They are NOT infallable. They are NOT larger than life. Mates come w/ their own set of issues that you likely would not have to deal w/ if you were single. Some people are worth those sacrifices - some are not.

I'm w/ QD --- if you've told the last 6 people that you "dated" that you love them... you're gay. Love doesn't work that way 1st of all.. and 2nd of all Love is something you DO, not something you SAY. You're "dating" - hanging out - having sex - great. Let it be that. If it grows to being engaged then step it up to all the grown-man shit. But PACE YOURSELF. This site is full of KIDS who know nothing about relationships and air your dirty laundry out there and a new bf/gf every goddamned week and a "what should I do" thread every month. LOL.

SLOW THE FUCK DOWN!!! GET SOME PUSSY... SUCK A FEW DICKS. IT'S OKAY TO NOT TAKE YOURSELF SO DAMN SERIOUSLY.

The lil "messages" have their place - but SPACE in a relationship is more important than almost anything. It's O-FUCKIN-K for your man/woman to miss you during the day AT WORK. It's just 8 hours ... re-lax... I mean I JUST saw u this morning... I can handle myself till we get home. If you're that co-dependant no wonder your relationships all end up in the tank.