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LOL yea....I think you are right lol. I got a random "Mornin gorgeous!" text this moring and it was exciting. I was just trying to be nice and suggest ya'll try it. My friends talk about how they wish their boyfriend did this and that. I'm just trying to help ya'll out! LOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by FlipKing
And, backasswards-like, you are. You're letting these dudes know the signs to look for when their lover is insecure and on the verge of being "too close." That way they can move on.Quote:
Originally Posted by LizBiz
ESPECIALLY
if you're not married. The fuck you need to be telling some female/male all day long that you love them or some other shit for if you're not even married? I mean to be that clingy to a dude/dudette you're not even married to? That's just asking for added AND UNNECESSARY stress in your life. Girls that expect this have no idea what a real relationship is about and therefore, have no business being in a relationship. Later, QD.
I wake my gf up with a text every morning. Its not about her needing it or wanting it. Its just nice.
Exactly!!! :goodjob:Quote:
Originally Posted by FlipKing
Now wtf us QD talking about. Ugh never fails.
If you don't understand it, just reread it. I kept it dumbed down so everyone could understand. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by LizBiz
I think what Liz is trying to get at is its never a bad thing to every now and then pop a random "good morning babe/gorgeous/beautiful" text. Unless the girls just a straight up cunt what bad can come of it?
1. Wtf are you talking about?Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
2. Where did I say ANYTHING about texting "ALL DAY LONG"?????? Please point that out first. Quote it if you need to. You jumped in this thread on some "clingy" shit and that's not even the POINT in this thread. I didn't say anything cuz I figured you were just stating ur opinion. But now you are talkin out the side of ur neck cuz I didn't day a DAMN thing about "text your girl all day today"
QD she got ya here. Just just said send a random text, not be a stalker. And fuck qd, alot has changed since you sent love messages in a bottle.
Exactly!!! Lol. That's all I was trying to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by bowdown201
those are some NEEDY ASS BITCHES. So you would rather have your significant other feel like he HAS to say something nice to make you happy rather than actually MEAN it?Quote:
Originally Posted by LizBiz
retards
relationships is like debating politics.. everyone goes about it differently. Which is why everyone doesnt work out with each other.....
Shut the fuck up. I put my opinion in here because I felt like it. I elaborated on it. So what. You make it seem like it's bad thing if you don't do that shit. I'm just saying for a girl to expect that shit (which you said yourself some of your friends talk about it) is a girl that doesn't need a relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by LizBiz
Never used any bottles. Back in my early days, I just needed a campfire and a blanket, man. Lolol. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by FlipKing
Now wtf are yoooooooou talking about??? What makes them "needy ass bitches"??? Do tell. You can also re-read the damn OP.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vteckidd
Relationships are gay... not as gay as marriages, but definitely gay.
Fellas - do not give in to this shit. What you have done is create more problems for yourself.
1) She's on the phone RIGHT NOW w/ Heather saying "Hmmmm --- idk girl... he texted me outta the blue. He did something wrong." And Heather's dumb ass is saying "Yeah girl - I bet he has." Your dumb ass woman will listen to Heather although there is ZERO records in the history of Earth of Heather maintaining a relationship longer than a month. Men have a routine that women learn - when you BREAK that routine, you get fucked. Like a bee-line to the shower as soon as u walk in from fucking Heather (LOL) when you normally wait until after dinner to shower. She KNOWS something is up. Breaking routines is how we men get busted. If you never text 1st - DON'T START today. You haven't opened her car door in 7 years? Good - keep it that way.
2) Now you're on the hook. B/c if a week goes by w/out you texting AGAIN be prepared for "Oh, so what's up TODD?? The last time you texted me 1st was 02 December @ 11:46 - I remember b/c it was raining and you haven't done it SINCE. It's now 28Dec and I have to message you 1st ALL the time. Do you not love me anymore? Show some initiative!!" Way to go hero.
3) To all of you who did this shit you just took RELATIONSHIP advice from a girl. Fail.
Anytime I text a bitch it's to tell her I'm coming over for a fuck. I also make sure to tell her to cook something up and have a cold drink so when I'm done with that slut I get my shit and go.
LET's GOOO !
Fuck that bitch Heather.
I will say though, the fact is that women say one thing and want another. Your friends dont really want that.......They will say it now, but if they wanted some needy clingy guy, then they would be dating them and dumping them by the end of the week.Quote:
Originally Posted by LizBiz
Hmmm, I'd rather my boyfriend not text me first than to text me first because a chick on a website suggested it. It is nice to get the "thinking about you" text, but I'd rather it be because he thought of it and was REALLY thinking about me.
The whole point of this was def. missed on all levels.
To us females, it is just nice to get a text in the morning or randomly saying something sweet, which if you are with the person, then they more then likely mean it anyway. It isn't that we are needy, just nice to get it. Puts a smile on our faces. GEESH! Lighten up!
my bitch can text me first, and ill text her back. i'm a man, i don't play the stupid "my emotions are hurt because you don't text me" bullshit. She can text me, or not hear from me at all.
Just be yourself.....fuck the added tactics.
The right woman will get the right attention from the right guy.
Some women see it as a dude being clingy, others see it as their dude cares.
Just to clarify, every tactic just doesn't work for every relationship.
I know women who despsie text messages like that 100% and perfer a call or just see them in person.
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Originally Posted by BABY J
SPOKEN LIKE A GOD DAMN MAN. I FUCKING LOVE THIS GUY. WE SHOULD HANG OUT.
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Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
wow i must agree with this QD,
Altough i must admit that i occasionaly do send a random text to just say "hey beautiful" but thats only once every blue moon but, but it does get annoying when you have someone sending you this type of shit every hour or so its like ok i get the damn point. I do beleive its ok to do occasionally but not every hour or everyday.
i wont front.. i dont like to be annoyed, and harrassed. but knowing someone cares puts me in a good mood. So ill do the same to someone i care about, especially when you dont know if you will see that person again. i dont think its too much to tell people how you feel on a daily basis. but im a relationship type of dude so i can only speak for me!
You stated your opinion and I respected it. Now you do the same. No where did I say girls EXPECT it, no where did I say it was a bad thing if you didn't do it. Now stop giving me a damn hard time cunt!!Quote:
Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
Shoots and SCOREEEES!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by BABY J
Be your fucking self. Change now and forever be a suspect boyfriend.
HAHA MAN I JUST NEED TO SAY, BABYJ. FUCKING MAN.
GOD
DAMN
RIGHT.
I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you. A/S/L?Quote:
Originally Posted by BABY J
Baby J: despues sexo con una puta, hace ella tiene dolor en la culo, boca y panocha porque tu utilizados un condon de papel de lija? jajaja
LMAO....
BABY J Good words Sir...
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Originally Posted by MongolPup
LULZ:lmfao:
STFU.Quote:
Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.
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Originally Posted by HeLLo iM iZzY
Maybe later :goodjob::taun:
QD --- my n1gg@.
Look. There is nothing wrong w/ finding some1 to go through life with. But it's SIMPLY that. Consider it a permanent (if you're lucky) roomate. They are NOT super-human. They are NOT infallable. They are NOT larger than life. Mates come w/ their own set of issues that you likely would not have to deal w/ if you were single. Some people are worth those sacrifices - some are not.
I'm w/ QD --- if you've told the last 6 people that you "dated" that you love them... you're gay. Love doesn't work that way 1st of all.. and 2nd of all Love is something you DO, not something you SAY. You're "dating" - hanging out - having sex - great. Let it be that. If it grows to being engaged then step it up to all the grown-man shit. But PACE YOURSELF. This site is full of KIDS who know nothing about relationships and air your dirty laundry out there and a new bf/gf every goddamned week and a "what should I do" thread every month. LOL.
SLOW THE FUCK DOWN!!! GET SOME PUSSY... SUCK A FEW DICKS. IT'S OKAY TO NOT TAKE YOURSELF SO DAMN SERIOUSLY.
The lil "messages" have their place - but SPACE in a relationship is more important than almost anything. It's O-FUCKIN-K for your man/woman to miss you during the day AT WORK. It's just 8 hours ... re-lax... I mean I JUST saw u this morning... I can handle myself till we get home. If you're that co-dependant no wonder your relationships all end up in the tank.
Fuk you pay me!!!!! I'm a good advice giver!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by BABY J
When I come over?Quote:
Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.
Taco Bell? LOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by MongolPup
Negative. :no:Quote:
Originally Posted by HeLLo iM iZzY
Not what you sent me in that txt earlier.....:crazy:Quote:
Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.