The system is fucked up

[ahmonrah]

but to you friggin, i'll tell you the same thing i told my peoples who've gone thru the same scenario. go thru what you have to, if you feel the moms is that fucked up. the worst thing that could happen is you beat yourself up years later for having a potentially wayward child.
or....if the moms was really fucked up, NO CHILD AT ALL, if she played "pin the baby on the good guy".

go thru the court process bub. it's better you get confirmation on either side.

[Friggintitsman]

but to you friggin, i'll tell you the same thing i told my peoples who've gone thru the same scenario. go thru what you have to, if you feel the moms is that fucked up. the worst thing that could happen is you beat yourself up years later for having a potentially wayward child.
or....if the moms was really fucked up, NO CHILD AT ALL, if she played "pin the baby on the good guy".

go thru the court process bub. it's better you get confirmation on either side.

I will to what it takes. If I honestly felt that she was a good parent I wouldn't try to get my daughter away from her.