The system is fucked up

[Friggintitsman]

So I've been having major issues with the mother of my daughter. The bitch is a lunatic.

So here is the rundown. I have no rights to my daughter because she was born out of wedlock. When she was born I sign a "Paternity acknowledgment form" at meaning that I claim her as my own. This does not mean I have any rights to her. All that means is that her mom can get child support out of me. So every pay check child support is automatically garnished out of my wages. As far as the law is concerned I'm just a random sperm donor.

To even have some sort of rights I have to pay a lawyer $1500-$2500 to get her legitimated. That means I have to file for a DNA test and have the courts verify that she is mine. The thing is as much trouble as I go through with her mom. If she turned out to not be mine and she was gone for good that would kill me.

The next step I have file for visitation and custody. Which is going to suck because her family is like royalty in the town that I have to file in. On top of all that it's probably going to cost another $5000-$15000 because I won't fight for anything less than full custody. I only say that because her mom is seriously fucked up in the head and I fear that my daughter will turn out like her if she is raised by her.

I think it fucked up that we have to pay the price at the hand of all those dead beat fathers in the past. It sucks that women have all the rights in the world. And they wonder why so many father kidnap their kids and run away with them. I mean to even jump start the system take thousands of dollars and several months. No one wants to be away from their kids that long.

[Friggintitsman]

Where's bobbyfresh when I need him?

[Friggintitsman]

This shitty state has all kind of backwards ass laws.

[Julio]

GA is a Mother State.. good luck !

[Friggintitsman]

The most fucked up thing is that when a child grows up and turns out all fucked up who do we blame first.... the parents. And for the law to let an innocent child grow up with a psycho like her is just wrong.

I'm no angel myself, but anyone that know me personally knows I'm a good person. I know I talk a lot a shit on her, but the internet is my playground and I treat it as such.

[NAMNORI]

Yeah well I'm about to go through something like that luckily we are setting up all of the agreements now before we go to the judge and file our paperwork

[Friggintitsman]

Yeah well I'm about to go through something like that luckily we are setting up all of the agreements now before we go to the judge and file our paperwork

All she wants to do is have control and take my child away. There is no reasoning. Good luck to you bud

[Doppelgänger]

Life Lesson Of The Day - Keep y0 junk in the trunk until you're ready and committed.

[punkr6]

Life Lesson Of The Day - Keep y0 junk in the trunk until you're ready and committed.

x2...

[ahmonrah]

Life Lesson Of The Day - AIM HIGH

CORRECTED: thank me later...

[slostang]

thank me later...

[ahmonrah]

but to you friggin, i'll tell you the same thing i told my peoples who've gone thru the same scenario. go thru what you have to, if you feel the moms is that fucked up. the worst thing that could happen is you beat yourself up years later for having a potentially wayward child.
or....if the moms was really fucked up, NO CHILD AT ALL, if she played "pin the baby on the good guy".

go thru the court process bub. it's better you get confirmation on either side.

[eraser4g63]

She wants sole custody then she can pay for that thing herself, Just saying.

[Friggintitsman]

but to you friggin, i'll tell you the same thing i told my peoples who've gone thru the same scenario. go thru what you have to, if you feel the moms is that fucked up. the worst thing that could happen is you beat yourself up years later for having a potentially wayward child.
or....if the moms was really fucked up, NO CHILD AT ALL, if she played "pin the baby on the good guy".

go thru the court process bub. it's better you get confirmation on either side.

I will to what it takes. If I honestly felt that she was a good parent I wouldn't try to get my daughter away from her.

[BKgen®]

So I've been having major issues with the mother of my daughter. The bitch is a lunatic.

All women are fucking crazy.

[NAMNORI]

All women are fucking crazy.

TRUE MOTHERFUCKING STORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Tech5]

the laws are there to protect the women and the children. Plus the mothers are the main support for these kids, so the courts think its best that the kids stay with the mother rather the father.. But if you can prove that she is a unfit mother then you have the upper hand...

Sad but us men are at the bottom and have to fight to win these types cases but it has and can be done if you have the right tools and money

[punkr6]

All women are fucking crazy.

amen....

[Kasper]

Its sad to see a truly careing person have to go threw this only for the fact the mother wants a paycheck. If you have a way to prove that the mother is unfit then exploit it.. I wish you the best of luck my friend.

[Friggintitsman]

the laws are there to protect the women and the children. Plus the mothers are the main support for these kids, so the courts think its best that the kids stay with the mother rather the father.. But if you can prove that she is a unfit mother then you have the upper hand...

Sad but us men are at the bottom and have to fight to win these types cases but it has and can be done if you have the right tools and money

Fuck those bitches. People like her don't deserve to get anything. Let alone lay on their back spitting out babies and using the system to their advantage. No more than a few months after she and I split up she was pregnant with some other dudes kid.

Beside recent studies have shown that the father plays the more active role in a child's development. They are the ones that dictate how a child will turn out later in life.

Being with her is living proof how low my like had gotten. PTSD is some serious shit. But I guess we all have seen that in recent news.

[Friggintitsman]

All women are fucking crazy.

Lol Trooest story eva told

[§treet_§peed]

It's like I said on my Myspace. ALL FEMALES LIE.PERIOD.

[The Creeper]

I agree. Women are evil.

[Friggintitsman]

And they suck too. Although I've got a pretty good one now though.