
Originally Posted by
Firefightin_tC
Nice guys finish last because they allow themselves to finish last.
I'm a nice guy...but let's not get it twisted, never mistake my kindness/nice guy attitude as a sign of weakness.
It is possible to be two in one, especially when it comes to females. I have no problems being a complete gentleman and actually showing emotion and caring about those who I'm intimate with, but at the same time, I refuse to have anyone walk over me like that ever again.
I've been there for so many years and just until recently, maybe like in the past year, I've realized that if you don't be your own man and if you don't respect yourself...no one else, especially a female, will.
But then again, just my .02