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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    Take it to PMs!!!! lol

    Mr. Bautista.....What do YOU want? Think about it......What..........do...........YOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU....Want?
    If what you are doing is making you unhappy......DON'T DO IT...... She will either go with you. Or she will move on. Nothing is set in stone until you are married. And even that's sketchy these days. Life is WAAAAY too short to not be happy. Be happy every chance you get, and those that test your happiness or don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated can kick rocks. She will go on to live a good life with or without you and you will too.

    Just sounds like a bunch of drama *gag*
    Times fucking 2!
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    what do you have against Old Navy? What did Old Navy do to you? You should have had your gift reciept for your return you ghostfaced bitch.

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    Edit: thank you.
    Last edited by FAM0U5; 10-22-2009 at 01:58 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SleepingTalon View Post
    The "nice guy" routine is just a total fucking FAIL because guys try it from the VERY FIRST MINUTE they meet the girl. At that point, you just look like a damn panderer, and give the person the green light to play doormat on your ass. The "nice guy" schtick pretty much only works once you have already established rapport with the girl, as at that point, you just look like a genuine, good, person. I see this happen all the time with people, as they try to play the "I'm the nicest guy in the world" routine, only to be stomped out repeatedly. Ironically, the girls that usually DO the stomping are also the ones that get treated like shit by other guys. I guess many guys think that because the girl has been treated so badly by other guys, she will wanna have someone who is the EXACT OPPOSITE of that. While this may be true, I don't think any girl wants a total pussy for a BF, so the happy medium is the key. K, end of rant!
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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    Please word it differently, we are having a public discussion if you would like a more personal feedback I would be more than happy to respond in PM.
    It doesn't help that you quoted it, but I refrain from anything. I have nothing else to say about this topic
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    LOL at trying to be nice. Be your fucking self bro. The right girl will come along eventually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    Take it to PMs!!!! lol

    Mr. Bautista.....What do YOU want? Think about it......What..........do...........YOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU....Want?
    If what you are doing is making you unhappy......DON'T DO IT...... She will either go with you. Or she will move on. Nothing is set in stone until you are married. And even that's sketchy these days. Life is WAAAAY too short to not be happy. Be happy every chance you get, and those that test your happiness or don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated can kick rocks. She will go on to live a good life with or without you and you will too. You are an awesome person, if she doesn't know that, she will realize it one day. Hopefully for her, you will still want her lol. Until she realizes what she has.....instead of rocks, she can kick glass.

    Just sounds like a bunch of drama *gag*
    please dont get off topic... if you like to have a convo with me personally send a pm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jhadleyh View Post
    LOL at trying to be nice. Be your fucking self bro. The right girl will come along eventually.
    trying to get back on topic... your views on the subject.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    please dont get off topic... if you like to have a convo with me personally send a pm.
    Why did you post it in a thread then? I said all I had to say lol. I have no clue what you were talking about, just trying to help. GLWS
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    Girls run over the nice guys. Women appreciate the nice guys.

    I love bbq beef hotpockets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    Why did you post it in a thread then? I said all I had to say lol. I have no clue what you were talking about, just trying to help. GLWS
    I didn't want the tread about me or my situations, just the topic alone you know? Not trying to relate this topic on me.

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    There is a large majority of girls that like quote unquote bad guys. It's called broken wing syndrome. I think someone has already briefly posted about it but I will elaborated on it. When a girl meets a guy that has flaws its more of a turnon to them try and fix and mold their man into what they want. When I met my Fiance 5 years ago I was a dickhead had no intrest in dating her, i just wanted to fuck her. A couple of years went by and i eventually started molding to her needs and things she wanted me to do. Had my personality changed? No I adapted to her and the way she wanted to me be. Granted my girl was a whore when I met her and that may be why she wanted a bad guy, I will never know, but what I do know bro is that things either work or they don't. You get what you put into a relationship. I haven't taken the time to read all the post's in this thread but i hope my advice helps.The right person will come along one day. Your still young as most of us are, and when the right person comes along you will realize it. It may take time but it will click one day. Always remember that nothing is temporary, and everything comes to an end at some point. Whether it's when you die or you break up with a person. Look for what YOU want and the right girl will come along. Good luck bro.

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    Quote Originally Posted by One_Bad_SHO View Post
    Girls run over the nice guys. Women appreciate the nice guys.

    I love bbq beef hotpockets.

    I see what you did there.....

    BBQ beef ones are good as hail, but the aftermath is not so pretty. Especially when you are on a highway with very limited exits

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    everybody in tis thread needs to hang out and LOL at the lames in the dating game.

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    Quote Originally Posted by One_Bad_SHO View Post
    Girls run over the nice guys. Women appreciate the nice guys.

    I love bbq beef hotpockets.
    True but I wonder when the nice guys will snapped and just become assholes.. not trying to say that they be on one side or the other but them being in the middle is not simple I would think, after living a certain way it's hard for change like any other things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    True but I wonder when the nice guys will snapped and just become assholes.. not trying to say that they be on one side or the other but them being in the middle is not simple I would think, after living a certain way it's hard for change like any other things.

    No need to change if you're being yourself.

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    this is my own saying regarding dating,

    dating is like the casino. Its a gamble,and I dont have the spare feelings to play with right now. so i dont take the risk.

    this is y a serious relationship will not be happening anytime soon.

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    I heart Liz.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    this is my own saying regarding dating,

    dating is like the casino. Its a gamble,and I dont have the spare feelings to play with right now. so i dont take the risk.

    this is y a serious relationship will not be happening anytime soon.
    Why do you keep repeating yourself you said the same thing like 5 times this whole thread
    My boyfriend is better than you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAMOU5 View Post
    True but I wonder when the nice guys will snapped and just become assholes.. not trying to say that they be on one side or the other but them being in the middle is not simple I would think, after living a certain way it's hard for change like any other things.
    its not that they change to an asshole. They changed to being themselves, not a nice guy that they think a girl wants to be with. real talk, chivalry is just about dead in most aspects.

    I learned the hard way years ago. i use to be a nice dude, but a failed marriage opened my eyes to a lot of things about me and women. you cant please everyone all the time. Be you, not what they want. and if they dont accept it, thats their fault, because someone will like you for you. NOt what money u have, what u do for them, not what job u got, etc. and if someone cant even be a good friend,let alone companion when u are down, u dont want them around when u r on your feet. they wre never into you in the first place.

    Now, i still treat women nicely and can have many female friends, but i dont cater to them and their every need. i'm me at all times and they just gotta suck it up. Nothing wrong with being nice, just dont be a pussy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    Why do you keep repeating yourself you said the same thing like 5 times this whole thread
    cuz that shit aint happening. and I'm high lol and y u worried about it? i say wat i want

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    I offered Liz the goods and she turned me down. Should took the nice guy approach.

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    Quote Originally Posted by One_Bad_SHO View Post
    I offered Liz the goods and she turned me down. Should took the nice guy approach.
    nah, liz is cool. She just likes people. but dont think u gonna just make a beeline to get in her pants. she dont play that bullshit.

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    As a girl, I know I'm never gonna be 100% pleased with anyone. I know that no one is perfect. What I like is someone that TRIES. I don't care if you're an ass most of the time (to an extent), but if you try to make me happy when it's needed, I love it. Nice guys tend to be a little dorky, and bad guys just make me feel like I've caught something wreckless. Kinda like a challenge

    I'll always pick the bad guy over the nice guy, but it's nice when the bad guy turns nice in a relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    nah, liz is cool. She just likes people. but dont think u gonna just make a beeline to get in her pants. she dont play that bullshit.
    That uhh, was more of a joke than anything. We just stopped sexting, I mean texting. Tis all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    cuz that shit aint happening. and I'm high lol and y u worried about it? i say wat i want
    I believe you!!! Where is my dog!!!!!


    As far as relationships go. Bring it!!!!! I'm ready for the right guy, something real. I'm going places and if he wants to take that ride with me, c'mon baby!!!! I have enough "friends" and sex is not that important either so cut-buddies/friends with benifits....do not want.
    My boyfriend is better than you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    nah, liz is cool. She just likes people. but dont think u gonna just make a beeline to get in her pants. she dont play that bullshit.
    QFT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would rep you again but I can't.....Mod powers are not THAT great. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    I believe you!!! Where is my dog!!!!!


    As far as relationships go. Bring it!!!!! I'm ready for the right guy, something real. I'm going places and if he wants to take that ride with me, c'mon baby!!!! I have enough "friends" and sex is not that important either so cut-buddies/friends with benifits....do not want. Awwwwwwwww sorry Jim Carey!!! ILU!!!! lol
    yea liz still got a warm heart left. me on the other hand..... and i told u to buy that dog when we were at the mall!!! can i get u a cheap knockoff puppy? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    yea liz still got a warm heart left. me on the other hand..... and i told u to buy that dog when we were at the mall!!! can i get u a cheap knockoff puppy? lol
    Awwww yay!!!! Thank you!!! As long as the knockoff puppy is real (and not ugly), I will love him. That cute little mall dog would have been dead before I coulda finished paying him off!!!!!! F THAT!!!! But still....do want.
    My boyfriend is better than you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    cuz that shit aint happening. and I'm high lol and y u worried about it? i say wat i want
    You said you don't smoke anymore
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    THAT'S MY JAM!
    Quote Originally Posted by Dirty Octopus™ View Post
    what do you have against Old Navy? What did Old Navy do to you? You should have had your gift reciept for your return you ghostfaced bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BluesClues View Post
    You said you don't smoke anymore
    had to get my ingredients to pass a drug test if offered a job. tahs y i quit so i could be prepared. now i'm free range. thats all i was waiting on. so yes we will be gettin together soon!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    had to get my ingredients to pass a drug test if offered a job. tahs y i quit so i could be prepared. now i'm free range. thats all i was waiting on. so yes we will be gettin together soon!
    THAT'S MY JAM!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BluesClues View Post
    i wana burn right now. but got no whip guess i gotta wait till tomorrow

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS View Post
    i wana burn right now. but got no whip guess i gotta wait till tomorrow
    I've been burning all day. Helps with the sorrows
    THAT'S MY JAM!
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    Nice guys ? Assholes ?

    Didnt know that existed ...

    The truth is in the eyes of the beholder...

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    This thread has seriously developed some respect within me for LizBiz, BluesClues, and FAMOU5.

    Good thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    As a girl, I know I'm never gonna be 100% pleased with anyone. I know that no one is perfect. What I like is someone that TRIES. I don't care if you're an ass most of the time (to an extent), but if you try to make me happy when it's needed, I love it. Nice guys tend to be a little dorky, and bad guys just make me feel like I've caught something wreckless. Kinda like a challenge

    I'll always pick the bad guy over the nice guy, but it's nice when the bad guy turns nice in a relationship.
    Oh God this is everything wrong with a woman's approach to relationships.

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    Nice guys finish last because they allow themselves to finish last.

    I'm a nice guy...but let's not get it twisted, never mistake my kindness/nice guy attitude as a sign of weakness.

    It is possible to be two in one, especially when it comes to females. I have no problems being a complete gentleman and actually showing emotion and caring about those who I'm intimate with, but at the same time, I refuse to have anyone walk over me like that ever again.

    I've been there for so many years and just until recently, maybe like in the past year, I've realized that if you don't be your own man and if you don't respect yourself...no one else, especially a female, will.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Firefightin_tC View Post
    Nice guys finish last because they allow themselves to finish last.

    I'm a nice guy...but let's not get it twisted, never mistake my kindness/nice guy attitude as a sign of weakness.

    It is possible to be two in one, especially when it comes to females. I have no problems being a complete gentleman and actually showing emotion and caring about those who I'm intimate with, but at the same time, I refuse to have anyone walk over me like that ever again.

    I've been there for so many years and just until recently, maybe like in the past year, I've realized that if you don't be your own man and if you don't respect yourself...no one else, especially a female, will.

    But then again, just my .02
    I think you may have it down Justin
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jecht View Post
    This thread has seriously developed some respect within me for LizBiz, BluesClues, and FAMOU5.

    Good thread.
    Thanks for the props. You've been repped!
    THAT'S MY JAM!
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