there is a fine line between being "nice" and being a "puss"..the nicer you are the more you will be taken advantage of.a lot of women seek this in men.simply because they want someone that will give them whatever they want and not catch shit for it.nice guys just go for making the person they are with happy, thus forgetting about themselves which in the long run gets them hurt.A guy that willl stand up to her on the other hand thinks more for himself and ensures his happiness..Just dont let her take advantage of the feelings and relationship in general.