Hmmm, I agree with BluesClues. Pick the battles that are worth fighting.

I have been the nice guy all my life, but I am also silly and assholish (new word). I don't tolerate ignorance at at all. If a chick has the mental capacity to get mad because I am too nice, then she can kick bricks. There is no person that is TOO NICE, you can't be TOO NICE. You can, however, be spinless/fearful/scared/bitchy/etc. Follow me? Most chicks have dated the 100% asshole jerk, who talks down to them and treats them just good enough to make them stay around. When a true gentleman comes along they see him as soft, and not MANLY enough. Tell the chick to keep it moving, for she is scarred!

I am single now because I have chosen to truly find the woman I want. If our shit doesn't line up 80% from the jump, you get passed up and its on to the next one. No more time wasting on hopes and shit, lol.

1) Be yourself
2) Respect yourself and your morals/beliefs
3) Be CONFIDENT and DECISIVE
4) When shit gets funky, pull out the air freshner on dumb asses (funniest shit I have learned, ever, lol)


My confusion is this: Why do women want a guy to "take charge" all the time, but complain about the decision that is made. Mind you, I always ASK what they would perfer (type of restaurant, type of outing, etc.). Why the hell can't it be a group effort sometimes, SHIT! smh