Quote Originally Posted by Jason..
Thats wrong...you can love or get attached to some1 dosent mean the relationship was healthy..i was w my ex ex for 5 years i still love her but i know it will never ever work...

And i still think your missing the point man..
I've been in one 5 year relationship and numerous 6 month to 2 year relationships. This is the first time I've been outside a relationship for more than a month or two in over a decade.

The key isn't what happens in your life but how you deal with it. It sucks and it might hurt but losing a true friend over it is not the what you want to do. I'm sure he had just a hard time with telling you about it as you do with dealing with it.