in all seriousness...the 'always wants to spend time together' thing...if you arent w/ that...i feel relationship isnt for you, at this particular time. i mean i can see if yall have been married for yrs or had kids or something, but 'fresh/new' relationship like what yall had/have, id stick w/ my chick.

spending alot more time with her i bet would diminish if u spent alot more time w/ her.