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Last edited by umairejaz; 11-08-2009 at 08:51 AM.
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x2389572309580347328979057029834637109850328723109 1Originally Posted by Kasper
so how do you get maried if you don't have a relationshipim am really curious
funny but yet wrong at the same time
been threw the same shit man! trust me you will regret cause i still do but thats life!
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Last edited by umairejaz; 11-08-2009 at 08:51 AM.
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It might have been hard bro but trust me its worth it,And i am going to tell you why.
1) you guy's get married and going to argue 24/7 about what church the kids going to after u have some.
2) the parents are going to act a fool if you don't follow what there daughter is into and parents play a important rule in her mind making.Trust me i no about that because i am going through it right now with my wifes azn parents
3) there going to expect alot of stuff out of you that u just don't care to deal with after a little while of it.
4)the whole arranged thing is what my wifes parents believe in and she walked out and got married anyway but it has cost me alot of problems but i still love her and we get alone great.
I say stand your ground and go back to fishing because there is some good girls out there u just want find them at a bar.
I left a very pretty latino girl back when i was younger because she wanted me to let go of my christian life style back then of being a good boy.I am not that good boy now but for her not to believe in god was killing me and i cared about her alot.But left her and i am happy as can be now with my wife yr's later
I check sluts off my list like a maintnence man
I drive a low is3 just so it gives me a reason to drive super slow on these rough ga roads.
Impossible? no. Like I just got done telling some girls on this site, if you keep doing the same thing, you will always get the same results...
That kinda... just made me want to punch myself in the face.God I need to grow up and give Love a chance.
LOL!That kinda... just made me want to punch myself in the face.
Ok, so let me explain. It has to do with my relationship experience. Until I met Dan I always went for a certain type of guy and it never worked out. Once I decided to give someone who wasn't "my type" a chance, my life changed. 9 years later Dan and I are still together and have never broken up—not even for 1 day. Turns out, Dan was more my type than I ever thought.
From another aspect, I hate when people think all men/women are liars and cheaters because that's just not true and when you believe it to be true you are doing yourself a huge injustice by settling for a liar and cheater because you think you have no other choice. I have never cheated or lied to Dan and vice versa. You CAN met a nice, honest person if you just open your mind and "type" a little.
some kids need to learn what love really is and then move on towards marriage and a family because it is really not all that bad if you got your $ right.Its a very mature and growing thing that u will cherish or just hate and so far i love it and can't wait to build this house so i can have kids
I check sluts off my list like a maintnence man
I drive a low is3 just so it gives me a reason to drive super slow on these rough ga roads.
Its quiet clear u still wanna be with her.my sutuation is kind of similar I have been with my wife for 12 years we are a interracial couple when we first met my mom didn't approve the rest of the family was buggin,her mom and dad and faimly was the same way she got pregnant all hell broke loose we delt with so much drama but we both said in the end its us and no one else and if someone has a problem then fuck em so 12 yrs later and 2 kids later everybody eventually came around so what I'm gettin at is wether it be religion,race whatever people eventually come around u just got to grind it out and hang in there good luck to you I hope u get back together
Umm. no one can speak on what u may have let her go for. Females be eurywurr and well... idk. But still, its solely at ur discretion, shes pretty and all that. I've had to let some pretty ladies go as well.
CHASE ->>> WHAT MATTERS
Some very bad advice in this thread. Looks don't matter, its all dependent on the two of you and how you feel about each other. Everyone else can think she's ugly or not understand but as long as it makes sense to you, that is what really matters. Personally, to me love is deeper than religious beliefs but I respect your decision.
very well put
I agree, love is deeper than religious beliefs. However, these religious beliefs are tied to his family. So, in a sense, he could be trading love for his family.
Then again, if his family loves him, they should accept him and realize that love is deeper than their beliefs. Its a circle... y'see.
Love, religion...both are bullshit.
In all seriousness though...I think that the two things are important in life, but should not be tied together when it comes to decisions. And if I were you, I'd just view her religious background as an obstacle to overcome; it'll make it that much sweeter when you've got it past you.
I'll drink to the very well put
Fuck religion. Fuck people who take it too god damn serious.
BTW-i dunno what you look like, but you could prob do better.
-Ant.
The Carbon Fibered R6
You hit it on the spot.
**Added additional inside information in original post.
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+reps to everyone.
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Sucks man. I don't really think this is the best place to get advice but there have been certain remarks made that I can agree with.
While I can respect and understand your an adult and you have to make your own decisions. I understand you feel like you owe your family a lot and you feel like you had to end this relationship that you seemed to truly value in order to repay your debt to your family but personally, if im with someone that makes me happy beyond words there is no way in hell I'd give that up for anything.
I was with a girl for a almost 3 years that I loved with everything I had and had planned on asking to marry me. But she ended it for reasons I will probably never understand before I got the chance. It's been 6 months and I'd still do anything to get her back.
I guess my point is this. Your an adult you have your own life and regardless of whatever debt you feel you have with your parents you have to take care of yourself and make yourself happy first before you try to make others happy.
Good luck man.
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why not just marry her? arrange that shit!
Yo bro, I dont see your problem here? You like her, she likes you, your both Muslim, you just need to get the parents involved to make it happen?
Or do you not want to get married right now, Im not understanding your situation here. Im gonna go back and read your first post again.
oh I see. Your parents want the arranged marriage thing? Well whats the problem? her family is Hindu?
post pics of the arranage marriage girl.
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Last edited by umairejaz; 11-08-2009 at 08:52 AM.
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For some reason, I had always thought you were Latino. Boy, was I wrong. Pakis are coo in my book.
Ehh, honestly I would want to bring her back.
Very very very hard to find a good girl now days that won't cheat or lie.
Just my two cents. But goodluck with you.
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Thats the truth right there. Its 09 playboy, its hard to find a good girl. I got a good one, thank god, She be tripping sometimes but im gonna keep her.
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i dont believe in arranged marriages but if you dont have a problem with it and you wanna make your parents happy, sure..
That sounds like a normal woman, maybe you should try being gay.
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damn is this for real?
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Last edited by umairejaz; 11-08-2009 at 08:53 AM.
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so who's this girl you're getting set up with? seen her yet? pics?
in all seriousness...the 'always wants to spend time together' thing...if you arent w/ that...i feel relationship isnt for you, at this particular time. i mean i can see if yall have been married for yrs or had kids or something, but 'fresh/new' relationship like what yall had/have, id stick w/ my chick.
spending alot more time with her i bet would diminish if u spent alot more time w/ her.
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