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Originally Posted by LS3_KID
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qftQuote:
Originally Posted by LS3_KID
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to add to what i said...she also has to be/TRY TO BE understanding, and even though she may not like it, she knows she gota deal with it. not to mention at this particular time also, you two arent married.Quote:
Originally Posted by umairejaz
i've had to learn understanding as well as my wife...we still going thru the motions...taint easy...when they say 'dead man walking' when u get married...theres truth to that shit:lmfao:
Does qft mean quite fucking true or quoted for truth?
*looks back*Quote:
Originally Posted by LS3_KID
*looks again*
seems as in the statement you made, both of those meanings you just stated can be used as effectively.
This statement is super-effectiveQuote:
Originally Posted by Sammich
affirmative
You'll regret this decision when you find out the arranged marriage is with a dude.
[QUOTE=umairejaz
Arranged chick = very religious, memorized the quran, teaches poverty stricken kids, from a good home who are family friends... everything to please the folks.
It appears as though you are required to marry either a saint or a nun.
This chick = hindu family, recent convert.... (this is in the folks perception)
Does this bother YOU??
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Here is my :2cents:. If family loves you they will love you no matter what. Seeing you happy should make them happy. Then you have to look at the long road. Your parent will eventually pass and when they do you may very well wake up one morning and look over and see the woman that you HAD to marry to "MAKE THE FOLKS HAPPY" You gonna feel the same years from now? Who will you have to please when you are 50 and settled?? you sure you're not going to say "shoulda woulda coulda" when she is quoting the quran or taking your car money to feed those poverty stricken kids? Is making folks pleased worth giving it up? if so, then thats your choice. But at the same time, if ppl love you like they say they do they will love you no matter what. It appears as though this chick already did and proved it.
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Umair if you really do love her then put other things to side and go get her. I know how much family means to us desi folks, but seems like as time is going by you are wanting to be with her even more. If it's bugging you now, it will bug you later. No need get involved with anyone else if you have feelings for someone else. You'll never give that person your 100%. You both yourselves the trouble and go get this girl.
On the other hand if you have made your mind about just keeping the family happy, then stick with the girl they are gonna arrange you with. STOP looking at old pix, and don't let your mind wander back in old memories. Get your mind on something else (new hobby or just waste time on something that will get your mind focused on that activity), try hard (been there done that), and soon you'll emotions for her will fade away, not completely, but better than now.
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the opinions in this thread are ALL bullchit without pictures of the lady in question
naked pics or STFU
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Originally Posted by StreetHazard
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to One_Bad_SHO again.