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  1. 05-26-2009, 02:21 PM #1
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    Ok so Im at one of my Best friends Birthday Party last night and Everybody is Drinkin and Having fun...I notice a Few new faces Including a Strange looking Guy standing Just about as close as he can get to my friend All night...Well Basically his Brother gets Really wasted and Slips up and says Thats his Brothers Boyfriend.....Boyfriend? Ive Known this guy since I was 10...He is Gay?..Wtf...So after kinda wandering around in my Inebriated State for a while, Me and my girl went home...I dont think Him being gay Bothers me More than Him not feeling comfortable enough to Tell me..But everybody else seems to Know about it already...Should I Confront him and Tell him It will not affect my opinion towards him? Or Should I let it go And wait to see if he ever Comes out to me...This is kind of Weird to me..But obviously It happens and People have to learn to adapt..Thas my homeboy no matter what..Im just confused right now.
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    Sounds like a date, wear some make-up cuz dis will be in HD. I'll bring da K-game, so you better be on race fuel cuz you'll need it. :boobies:
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    This whole, "It's just the internet" is just dumb. If that's the truth then the person busting you in the face for running your mouth can say, "It's just 5 cross yo lip dude, don't take it too seriously"
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  2. 05-26-2009, 03:37 PM #2
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    I Guess nobody has been in Any kind of situation like this..Oh well
    Quote Originally Posted by KIZDAWAY View Post
    Sounds like a date, wear some make-up cuz dis will be in HD. I'll bring da K-game, so you better be on race fuel cuz you'll need it. :boobies:
    Quote Originally Posted by Glides View Post

    This whole, "It's just the internet" is just dumb. If that's the truth then the person busting you in the face for running your mouth can say, "It's just 5 cross yo lip dude, don't take it too seriously"
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    i would just talk to him about it, let him know its not going to change your opinion of him or change your relationship with him. IMO
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    damnnn!!! i dunno what to say bro!!.....1
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    Pinch his butt, then go from there.

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    I think that nomatter what, if he turns out to be gay then the relationship you guys had will never be the same.
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    Then don't mention it. If it comes up, it comes up. Bringing it up will only make things awkward.
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    ^Tru..Ill never be able to Jokingly pinch his nipples again...Its Ruined now...Naw but on a serious note...I kind of Had a feeling for a While...Im just kinda Hurt that he has told almost Everyone except me...
    Quote Originally Posted by KIZDAWAY View Post
    Sounds like a date, wear some make-up cuz dis will be in HD. I'll bring da K-game, so you better be on race fuel cuz you'll need it. :boobies:
    Quote Originally Posted by Glides View Post

    This whole, "It's just the internet" is just dumb. If that's the truth then the person busting you in the face for running your mouth can say, "It's just 5 cross yo lip dude, don't take it too seriously"
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  9. 05-26-2009, 03:49 PM #9
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    ^maybe he felt threatened by you or afraid you would laugh in his face or never speak to him again.

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    Yea maybe...I just thought we were Alot closer than that...We have kinda grown distant in the past 6 months or so But i didnt really know why...I Been friends with this guy for Over Half my life
    Quote Originally Posted by KIZDAWAY View Post
    Sounds like a date, wear some make-up cuz dis will be in HD. I'll bring da K-game, so you better be on race fuel cuz you'll need it. :boobies:
    Quote Originally Posted by Glides View Post

    This whole, "It's just the internet" is just dumb. If that's the truth then the person busting you in the face for running your mouth can say, "It's just 5 cross yo lip dude, don't take it too seriously"
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    And in those many years, did you ever happen to say a few gay jokes in front of him? Call some1 a fag? Etc... Prob why he didn't tell yeah.

    No worries though, just approach him like an adult and ask why he was afraid to tell ya.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnthonyF
    And in those many years, did you ever happen to say a few gay jokes in front of him? Call some1 a fag? Etc... Prob why he didn't tell yeah.

    No worries though, just approach him like an adult and ask why he was afraid to tell ya.

    -Ant.
    Well of course..We all did growing up...Shit HE was the main one Cracking Jokes..Thats why i'm so confused..It could Possibly ruin my relationship with the whole family if I try to talk to him about it.. A few people have told me Just let it go unless it Directly affects me...I don't know if this is Selfish But one of my Best friends being gay Does kinda affect me IMO...
    Quote Originally Posted by KIZDAWAY View Post
    Sounds like a date, wear some make-up cuz dis will be in HD. I'll bring da K-game, so you better be on race fuel cuz you'll need it. :boobies:
    Quote Originally Posted by Glides View Post

    This whole, "It's just the internet" is just dumb. If that's the truth then the person busting you in the face for running your mouth can say, "It's just 5 cross yo lip dude, don't take it too seriously"
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    give him CG evans number. i hear the lil guy is still upset over a recent break-up
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    Quote Originally Posted by Major Motion
    give him CG evans number. i hear the lil guy is still upset over a recent break-up
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    Quote Originally Posted by B00STedSvT
    Or Should I let it go And wait to see if he ever Comes on me...

    NO! GOD NO don't wait that long...

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    just let it go and wait for him to tell you. If you value the friendship its his choice to tell you or not tell you
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    Quote Originally Posted by JDMJAYDC2
    just let it go and wait for him to tell you. If you value the friendship its his choice to tell you or not tell you
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    Quote Originally Posted by AnthonyF
    Pinch his butt, then go from there.

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    Naw bro I wouldnt say anything until he brings it up 2 u.
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    I would just wait it out and see if he brings it up. He may be afraid of ruining you guys relationship and that is why he hasn't told you. But thats just my opinion.
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    Put a finger in his butt. If he gives you a reach around he is gay and has just come out of the closet. If he doesn't, you are gay and just came out of the closet.
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    lol at pinching his butt...ANT your making me very happy lol
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    have you ever played leapfrog with him growing up?
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