Quote Originally Posted by toxxxic
... But personally, if I want more from a guy than a hookup, I don't just give it all up on the first night.
Faulty logic.

If a man is a player, or a whore, or just wants to sex you --- then he will wait as long as you will to hit it and STILL not take you seriously. You can't fuck a man outta your life -- it doesn't work that way. The sad part is that you can fuck him IN to your life (temporarily), but you can't keep him there w/ that. It is possible to sex him up good until he realizes that there is more to you than booty-poppin'. If there is a REAL connection you can fuck him the 1st hour and you'll be married a few years later.

Sex is just sex - it's not magic. It's not what a REAL relationship is based on bc after you both pop the next 60 seconds is what matters... what do you talk about? What do you do (other than have more sex), etc. If you're thinkin' "i wish he/she would leave" then there is nothing there other than a good lay --- and sometimes those types of relationships is all a person has time for --- nothing wrong w/ it --- you just have to be honest about where the relationship is going.