To the OP, listen to the OGs kind sir... we've been where you were. Well, kinda... I've never been 0 for 3. LOL.

This is a simple mental thing men can do to improve your pussy-rate. You hear it all the time from women: "yeah I might give you some pussy" - or "girl... are you gonna give him some?" That makes it seem like it's up to the woman to "bless us" with pussy. Well pardon me if I don't agree... my mentality is the exact opposite. It's not a matter of when/if she will give me some pussy, it's a matter of if/when I'm gonna give her the dick. It sounds simple, but the mental advantage is HUGE. I see men all the time approaching women w/ that nervous "man I HOPE she gives me the pussy" look on his face. You appear as the needy man who is praying to God that he "gets some".

FAIL

Show up as the confident (NOT cocky --- big difference) man who knows he can hit that already. That mental edge will go a long way.