Hey ladies...

[Brian*]

I have a QUESTION!

My fiancee saw a picture of a naked girl on my computer history, it was a pic out of the "red light district" on here lOl...

Anyway, she handed me my ring back, told me to fuck off and not to come to her house last night. Well, she comes back in about an hour and we kinda talk things out and I end up at her house last night, I felt like I was in fucking middle school again!
Anyway, my question is... Was I in the wrong for looking at a topless picture?
Did she have a right to give me my ring back like that after all I do for her?


And now she has been texting "someone" and deleting the text right after she sends it. I'm pretty sure its this little A&F faggot that is in "love" with her*

[teh bri]

In my personal opinion.. And Don't take it offensively I don't think guys who are married, engaged, taken and etc should be looking at another girl naked. No matter where it is, and no matter who it is. But, for her to give you the ring back was taking it a little too far, it happens. But I guess that's just her. I wouldn't go wild out and crazy like that to hand back a ring. But that's just me.

[NVEOUS]

Damn bro that shit sucks. I hope it all goes well for you.






But if they dont, you can always find a bi chick that will look with you

[BobbyFresco]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...

[mocha latte cupcake]

here we go: advice from JM

1st) how old is she?

2nd) no you're not wrong, granted its not like you have GIGs and GIGs of porn on your computer, there was a single picture blah blah blah.

3rd) she is obviously rather insecure if she thinks that you're either A comparing that girl to her or B wanting something else when your CLEARLY with her.

4th) Giving the ring back shows that she doesn't truly take this whole thing seriously, because (assuming is an engagement ring) thats a BIG commitment to just "give back". However, not knowing this girls past she could have a HUGE thing against porn, which some girls do. My girl gets mad when she finds a whole file devoted to asian girls but still we talk it out and she knows that guys are attracted to girls (or SHOULD be) but that she is the one for me and that there is nothing she has to fear. girls are like puppies. they follow you and are looking for constant reassurance that you love them, need them, and just all around care about then and are NOT looking to replace them.

FIF) girls are spiteful little bitches, they do the same thing guys do only they make sure to "hide it in plain sight" and you don't know if its really that guy or just a friend (guy or girl) that she is doing certain actions (deleting in front of you) to make it look like someone is interested in them so you better be nice. Girls assume this makes them more attractive and desired when they simply don't realize it pisses us off more. anyways, don't jump to conclusions cause it will cloud your clarity and just all around complicate things.

best of luck buddy. if you sit down and talk to her and just listen to what she has to say and set some rules or something, she should be a big enough girl to explain clearly what the problem was and how that made her feel.

hope i helped. -jm

[teh bri]

eh, i kinda agree with jm.. but I'd still be the one that gets mad if i see a picture of naked girl.. Now having a girl sent to your phone.. oh that's another story! woo! But good luck..

[punkr6]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...

x2, things are gonna get a lot worse with this one...

[Brian*]

You might want to rethink your arrangement with her...Mad about some dumb porn? Gay...Texting another guy and deleting said texts....Shady....


If that's the way she's acting now, I would expect for it to get worse and I would take my losses now rather than later....

Just my 2 cents, bro...

Seriously, I scroll through the RLD like once or twice a week to see whats new.. It not like I sit there and :jerkit: I'm just a fucking dude, who saw a picture on a fucking screen lol
I do everything for her... And I get treated like shit, talked to like a damn dog. Its bull shit, and the texting this is starting to piss me off

[Zodiac]

taking her ring off is a bit much. but we need more details about her

[Brian*]

here we go: advice from JM

1st) how old is she?

2nd) no you're not wrong, granted its not like you have GIGs and GIGs of porn on your computer, there was a single picture blah blah blah.

3rd) she is obviously rather insecure if she thinks that you're either A comparing that girl to her or B wanting something else when your CLEARLY with her.

4th) Giving the ring back shows that she doesn't truly take this whole thing seriously, because (assuming is an engagement ring) thats a BIG commitment to just "give back". However, not knowing this girls past she could have a HUGE thing against porn, which some girls do. My girl gets mad when she finds a whole file devoted to asian girls but still we talk it out and she knows that guys are attracted to girls (or SHOULD be) but that she is the one for me and that there is nothing she has to fear. girls are like puppies. they follow you and are looking for constant reassurance that you love them, need them, and just all around care about then and are NOT looking to replace them.

FIF) girls are spiteful little bitches, they do the same thing guys do only they make sure to "hide it in plain sight" and you don't know if its really that guy or just a friend (guy or girl) that she is doing certain actions (deleting in front of you) to make it look like someone is interested in them so you better be nice. Girls assume this makes them more attractive and desired when they simply don't realize it pisses us off more. anyways, don't jump to conclusions cause it will cloud your clarity and just all around complicate things.

best of luck buddy. if you sit down and talk to her and just listen to what she has to say and set some rules or something, she should be a big enough girl to explain clearly what the problem was and how that made her feel.

hope i helped. -jm

That was full of truth... I think her being 18 has something to do with it too... We have been together for over a year and things are just now starting to feel FUCKED UP...

[Brian*]

taking her ring off is a bit much. but we need more details about her

She tries to wear the pants in a relationship...
Her mom and sister are both a little on the bitch side... I guess she is to lol
Now she is telling me if she wants to hang out with that faggot she damn sure will... Yeah, lets see that happen lol

This is bullshit. I'm about 5min from giving up...

[mocha latte cupcake]

That was full of truth... I think her being 18 has something to do with it too... We have been together for over a year and things are just now starting to feel FUCKED UP...

yeah heres my rule for this #1 my girl is 19. we've been together for 4 months and things are great, ALLLLLL girls can keep up that sweet fun front blah blah blah then they get comfortable and drop it. AFTER a year maybe year and some change, they let it ALL out, b/c they think they got you, basically all girls have the ability to be nice and sweet 24/7 however about 10% or less actually WANT to be that way. after a year or so you'll know weather you wanna tough it through or get out. i always try to give the benefit of the doubt but when the bad days out number the good then its time to let it go.

not saying you should just be aware and don't fall for girl tricks, be a good guy and be yourself, don't assume she'll change cause only 1 out of 100 girls ACTUALLY change.

i'm sure you'll make the right decision buddy girls that age don't know what they want and tend to be emotionally unstable (damn lolis) but yeah bro. best of luck

[BobbyFresco]

That was full of truth... I think her being 18 has something to do with it too... We have been together for over a year and things are just now starting to feel FUCKED UP...

That being said, you may want to seriously rethink your situation....Her mental maturity will not happen overnight....and the way things are going now, based on what you have described, it doesn't seem right....Like I said, bro...call it a day and cut your losses now before you end up making mistakes that'll cost you time and a shit ton of money....

[BobbyFresco]

She tries to wear the pants in a relationship...
Her mom and sister are both a little on the bitch side... I guess she is to lol
Now she is telling me if she wants to hang out with that faggot she damn sure will... Yeah, lets see that happen lol

This is bullshit. I'm about 5min from giving up...

These would all be deal breakers for me but that last part...Fuck that!

[Princess12]

Well, I am married and to be quite honest, I don't really care that my husband looks at porn or has images of some random naked chicks stashed on the hard drive somewhere.

My level of caring changes dramatically if the girl he is looking at is someone I/he/We know, He begins randomly talking to the individual, develops a "relationship" whether it be just a "friendship" or not, etc.

I am very much aware that he loves me and only me, and I am comfortable with that. He knows where I draw the line and where he should draw the line. It has been openly discussed.

In my opinion, her texting some random guy and having some type of "relationship" with him is far worse that staring at boobies!

[Brian*]

yeah heres my rule for this #1 my girl is 19. we've been together for 4 months and things are great, ALLLLLL girls can keep up that sweet fun front blah blah blah then they get comfortable and drop it. AFTER a year maybe year and some change, they let it ALL out, b/c they think they got you, basically all girls have the ability to be nice and sweet 24/7 however about 10% or less actually WANT to be that way. after a year or so you'll know weather you wanna tough it through or get out. i always try to give the benefit of the doubt but when the bad days out number the good then its time to let it go.

not saying you should just be aware and don't fall for girl tricks, be a good guy and be yourself, don't assume she'll change cause only 1 out of 100 girls ACTUALLY change.

i'm sure you'll make the right decision buddy girls that age don't know what they want and tend to be emotionally unstable (damn lolis) but yeah bro. best of luck

That is the damn truth, the "shit" always starts around a year... Every damn girl I have ever dated has been that way. I would love to make it last with her, she is beautiful and I do (almost) everything for her, but damn the shit gets old after a while

[BanginJimmy]

time to cut your losses as things will only get worse when you are married. I wouldnt even consider marrying a girl til I was past 25. Neither you or her are mature enough to get married before then.

The possessive shit will get worse.
The offended game will get worse.
She will get far more think skinned in a fight.

None of the good things will get better, they will stay the same or fall off. Every bad aspect will get worse though.

[ALVIN]

Brian - Who's ass we gotta jump man...Im down dude

[Brian*]

Well, I am married and to be quite honest, I don't really care that my husband looks at porn or has images of some random naked chicks stashed on the hard drive somewhere.

My level of caring changes dramatically if the girl he is looking at is someone I/he/We know, He begins randomly talking to the individual, develops a "relationship" whether it be just a "friendship" or not, etc.

I am very much aware that he loves me and only me, and I am comfortable with that. He knows where I draw the line and where he should draw the line. It has been openly discussed.

In my opinion, her texting some random guy and having some type of "relationship" with him is far worse that staring at boobies!

See, thats how I though she would be! I have 0 porn pics saved on my computer, just my car builds and places her and I go...
And I would never look at another girls boobs that her or I knew. Just random ones lol

[Tasuki_Civic]

In my opinion...i wouldnt trust her ass at all. (at least from what you say)i mean really...all you saw was tits and she freaks out. wtf? and then gave the ring back over some tits? wtf?

i'd be very upset with my man if he asked for my ring back, because i looked at another mans penis out of a lil enjoyment.

i think you might need to acknowledge who you are about to be married to.

if its not marriage .........ha

[Brian*]

time to cut your losses as things will only get worse when you are married. I wouldnt even consider marrying a girl til I was past 25. Neither you or her are mature enough to get married before then.

The possessive shit will get worse.
The offended game will get worse.
She will get far more think skinned in a fight.

None of the good things will get better, they will stay the same or fall off. Every bad aspect will get worse though.

I'm 24. Big age difference but I don't think it really matters to much if the situation is right*

[BobbyFresco]

time to cut your losses as things will only get worse when you are married.

The possessive shit will get worse.
The offended game will get worse.
She will get far more think skinned in a fight.

None of the good things will get better, they will stay the same or fall off. Every bad aspect will get worse though.

Wtf mate?
You mean we finally agree on something...?

[Brian*]

Brian - Who's ass we gotta jump man...Im down dude

He would probably piss himself lol I have already told him to take one step forward, he took ten back hahaha

[ALVIN]

He would probably piss himself lol I have already told him to take one step forward, he took ten back hahaha

I need t ocome up one tuesday and just hang out...maybe give you a tattoo. GOt anything to trade for tattoo? lol

thinkin a MM shirt or two

[NVEOUS]

I almost came up your way last night alvin.

[toxxxic]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

[Brian*]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

Can I clone you? lol

[Princess12]

Eww this is why I cannot STAND girls, all they want to do is play childish games.

Tell her to go right ahead & hang out with that dude - if she's willing to lose her relationship over a pair of INTERNET TITTIES that you will NEVER see in real life, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

Who gives a fuck? I browse through the rld, and say "oh she's cute" "oh she's ugly" "she needs to gain 5 pounds"... and your girlfriend is crazy if she HONESTLY feels offended that you looked at a picture of a naked girl.

Hell, if I had a boyfriend and he NEVER looked at porn or pictures of naked girls, I'd be a little worried about him being a tad bit homo. Seriously.

But for real, her texting some random dude & deleting the messages just shows how immature she is & how easy it would be for her to just walk away.

Don't fall for the games, tell her she can do what she wants if she wants to play games and be shady. You're much better than that, don't put up with that shit. She WANTS you to get mad & jealous about her texting. If you don't & tell her she can do what she wants, she'll come running right back. Its all a big immature head game.

I AGREE! 110%

[toxxxic]

& another thing, with her being so young & acting soo immature, its hard to expect anything remotely serious.

She doesn't realize how hard it is to find a good guy (you sound like you're not half bad and actually want to be serious, unlike the other 99% of men) yet, and she's just taking you for granted. If I found a guy who bought me a ring & honestly wanted to be with me, shit! He can look at whatever the hell he wants lol

[NVEOUS]

Can I clone you? lol

x2

[NVEOUS]

& another thing, with her being so young & acting soo immature, its hard to expect anything remotely serious.

She doesn't realize how hard it is to find a good guy (you sound like you're not half bad and actually want to be serious, unlike the other 99% of men) yet, and she's just taking you for granted. If I found a guy who bought me a ring & honestly wanted to be with me, shit! He can look at whatever the hell he wants lol

Now im in love with you






























I keed i keed or do i?

[PURP]

This is why I love my wife. She'll look at porn with me. Point hot chicks out to me while walking down the street. everything. Honestly, Brian. DO NOT get your head jacked up over a female. As many have stated, it's all a head game. Just tell her to fuck off. I would, and have in the past. Remember, it's never wrong to let them know, you're stronger, faster, and smarter.lol... I'm gonna have to drive back up there and bring some beer. There's no better cure for anything, then some good ol' fashion, Bud.

[Brian*]

& another thing, with her being so young & acting soo immature, its hard to expect anything remotely serious.

She doesn't realize how hard it is to find a good guy (you sound like you're not half bad and actually want to be serious, unlike the other 99% of men) yet, and she's just taking you for granted. If I found a guy who bought me a ring & honestly wanted to be with me, shit! He can look at whatever the hell he wants lol

Well thank you I wish I could just find a mature damn girl and settle down... But O well, we will see what happens. Till then, I will continue to look at Internet boobies

[NVEOUS]

This is why I love my wife. She'll look at porn with me. Point hot chicks out to me while walking down the street. everything. Honestly, Brian. DO NOT get your head jacked up over a female. As many have stated, it's all a head game. Just tell her to fuck off. I would, and have in the past. Remember, it's never wrong to let them know, you're stronger, faster, and smarter.lol... I'm gonna have to drive back up there and bring some beer. There's no better cure for anything, then some good ol' fashion, Bud.

LOL agreed. My girl does the same thing!! I love it!

[PURP]

I will continue to look at Internet boobies

lol...check reps

[Brian*]

This is why I love my wife. She'll look at porn with me. Point hot chicks out to me while walking down the street. everything. Honestly, Brian. DO NOT get your head jacked up over a female. As many have stated, it's all a head game. Just tell her to fuck off. I would, and have in the past. Remember, it's never wrong to let them know, you're stronger, faster, and smarter.lol... I'm gonna have to drive back up there and bring some beer. There's no better cure for anything, then some good ol' fashion, Bud.

This is true, I was with a girl a few years ago that wanted to watch porn while we had sex.. That was pretty damn sweet lol* Your wife did seem like a cool girl congrats on that catch bro And beer is AWESOME... I'm going to find out today about that show spot too* Ill hit you up. PM me your number if you don't mind~






















Bud

[Brian*]

lol...check reps

My reps = full of win

[PURP]

My reps = full of win

lol... tell her to sit on that and rotate

[toxxxic]

I think someone just got some boobies in their user cp

[Brian*]

I think someone just got some boobies in their user cp

lol So.. Dinner tonight? hahahahaha JK*