Ok... here is my brand new 26 year old two cents:


First and foremost, y'all are too young to be getting married. 18?? Reery? I was engaged once when I was in my early 20s, and even that was a giant heaping disaster of badness. A lot of it had to do with age. She is not going to mature enough to enter into a meaningful union until she's mellowed through some life experience... and like JM said, being with her for a year is NOT enough time to really know her.

As for the pr0n... a naked picture is not what's wrong here... it's the lack of communication that is really the issue here. You need to be upfront with her regarding the things that you do/are into. There's absolutely nothing wrong with indulging in some pr0n... I love it... but until you can be open with her and let her know that it's not a reflection of any problems with her, you two will not be able to function properly as a couple.

As for the ring fiasco: what she did was incredibly childish and is simply a reflection of that age/maturity issue. Before you guys say your I do's, you will need to address these emotional outbursts. Marriages are HARD work. Those kinds of provocative actions are dangerous for any couple, let alone a married one.


The texting... either nip that shit in the ass now or STFU about it. Seriously... you better lay the law down... she's being a caddy bitch.