Well, I am married and to be quite honest, I don't really care that my husband looks at porn or has images of some random naked chicks stashed on the hard drive somewhere.

My level of caring changes dramatically if the girl he is looking at is someone I/he/We know, He begins randomly talking to the individual, develops a "relationship" whether it be just a "friendship" or not, etc.

I am very much aware that he loves me and only me, and I am comfortable with that. He knows where I draw the line and where he should draw the line. It has been openly discussed.

In my opinion, her texting some random guy and having some type of "relationship" with him is far worse that staring at boobies!