In my personal opinion.. And Don't take it offensively I don't think guys who are married, engaged, taken and etc should be looking at another girl naked. No matter where it is, and no matter who it is. But, for her to give you the ring back was taking it a little too far, it happens. But I guess that's just her. I wouldn't go wild out and crazy like that to hand back a ring. But that's just me.