~checks reps~ ahem, rachel you sent them to the wrong person.... :cry:
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~checks reps~ ahem, rachel you sent them to the wrong person.... :cry:
I'm in love....Quote:
Originally Posted by toxxxic
bwahahah oh god, here come the leg humps in this thread. QUICK put on your sweat pants and frumpy shirt :lmfao: REPEL REPEL
I didn't send them!! Purp did! I think :ninja: .....
And I can't reply to your pm because I'm on my phone, but I don't enjoy being played & figure others don't either! So I offer my wisdom & knowlege :)
Wait...wut? :ninja:Quote:
Originally Posted by PURE jdm
lOlOl
guys don't look else where til 1 of 3 things happen
1) you keep using, but i've got a headache tonight, or you just got a BJ LAST WEEK geez, i'm not in highschool anymore
2) you go off the deep end and start fights for no reason
3) you decide that you're just too busy for us, and can't be bothered when we wanna hang, so for all intensive purposes we consider ourselves abandon'd and free.
Freedom? What...
hahaha
Ok... here is my brand new 26 year old two cents:
First and foremost, y'all are too young to be getting married. 18?? Reery? I was engaged once when I was in my early 20s, and even that was a giant heaping disaster of badness. A lot of it had to do with age. She is not going to mature enough to enter into a meaningful union until she's mellowed through some life experience... and like JM said, being with her for a year is NOT enough time to really know her. ;)
As for the pr0n... a naked picture is not what's wrong here... it's the lack of communication that is really the issue here. You need to be upfront with her regarding the things that you do/are into. There's absolutely nothing wrong with indulging in some pr0n... I love it... but until you can be open with her and let her know that it's not a reflection of any problems with her, you two will not be able to function properly as a couple.
As for the ring fiasco: what she did was incredibly childish and is simply a reflection of that age/maturity issue. Before you guys say your I do's, you will need to address these emotional outbursts. Marriages are HARD work. Those kinds of provocative actions are dangerous for any couple, let alone a married one.
The texting... either nip that shit in the ass now or STFU about it. Seriously... you better lay the law down... she's being a caddy bitch.
I heart j00! :boobies:Quote:
Originally Posted by toxxxic
:ninja: freedom... a word that disappears from your vocab when the titties become present in your life..
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Originally Posted by PURE jdm
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Originally Posted by ALVIN
That soounds like an awesome deal
just walk away. any chick that wants to play head games isn't worth the trouble. i've been with my g/f for 4 1/2 years now, she looks at porn with me, we openly talk about all that stuff. its no big deal to her because she is secure in the fact that we are together.
Freedom doesn't always dissapear when the titties appear.
not always, most of the time. unless you happen to be that lucky guy who gets a easy and happy girl. but we all know those girls only exist in a far away land.... known only as. heaven :lmfao: unless you're claiming to be one of them. :ninja:
did you fall from heaven :lmfao: OH MY GOD THAT WAS TERRIBLE :lmfao: but seriously....
sigh that was bad. and not even meant to be seen, except that i don't think when i type i just free wheel and sadly that came to mind :lmfao: minus points for me :lmfao:
:lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao:Quote:
Originally Posted by PURE jdm
Troof
This thread makes a lot of sense, and now I have to rethink my position in the relationship Im am in..Quote:
Originally Posted by toxxxic
EDIT: I've have been with my girl for 5 years or so and we are engaged.
Fuck that shit. Take the ring, pawn it, buy car parts = great success.
I have a ton of naked girls on my phone and my gf's seen it she didn't say anything. She knew better if she said anything I'd pop that bitch on her mouth so hard she'd have trouble speaking for a week. Lolol
Seriously though if she said anything about it I'd tell her to deal with it or leave.
I hate shady bitches like that walk away man. From PERSONAL experience.
Ha...I think the general consensus is that you either
A. Have to set her straight now and take the lead in this relationship OR
B. Call it a day and go about your way....
Small issues now can be huge indicators as to what you have to look forward to in the future....Just the fact in itself that she made such a big broohah over some pics of some random chick online while she's telling you that she can and will hang out with some guy would be reason enough for me to be about my business....
do what bobbyfresh says. dump her. too immature.
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Originally Posted by Brian*
Walk away. Bobby hit the nail on the head.
Looking at a girl that you will never meet nor have a chance with, is completely different than her doing something that she knows makes you uncomfortable.
Fuck, tell her to keep the ring and call it a day. You do not want to go any further.
I have been here. It's only leading to heartache, resentment and drama
agreedQuote:
Originally Posted by teh bri
im a bit late on this one.. but Brian I would rethink this.. this to me honestly.. sounds like a relationship doomed for failure..
ditch her. She overreacted but on your take you shouldnt be really looking porn when you're really committed to a girl. That's why I say. Some girl are very insecure about guys looking at other girl naked. To them it feels like your saying "Oh you're not beautiful enough so I'm just going to whack off to this hot one." But on her part throwing the ring at you and texting another guy...I'd putt her out the door.
I agree 100%. Men are created with the desire to look at women (lots of women) naked. It's only instinct. I look at porn sometimes, my wife is secure enough that she doesn't care. I don't do it everyday, or have a porn addiction though. When we are in public I checkout hot girls that walk by. I don't stare, but why does it hurt to look? She does the same with hot guys. I think it's healthier to look at other women and satisfy that desire than to keep it bottled up, or only look at your significant other naked. Cause eventually you will want to see something different. I don't give a shit if your girlfriend is Megan Fox. You were given eyes for a reason. Just because you look doesn't mean you're going to fuck them. You both sound too young to be getting married if you ask me.Quote:
Originally Posted by BobbyFresh
If your girlfriend/fiance won't watch a porno with you. You need to find one that will.
You say that like it is a bad thing..... :lmfao:Quote:
Originally Posted by Crazy Asian
that's weird. if it is some girl you know, then i would understand her being a little mad, but to get mad over some random girl.. that's just stupid.
Lol. If your gf is insecure, I can see that. But I personally don't care because I am very secure with myself & toot my own horn all day long hahaha.
Thats because your f'n HOT!!Quote:
Originally Posted by toxxxic
agreed 100%.Quote:
Originally Posted by BobbyFresh
So! You don't have to be hot to be secure with yourself!
Dude, my wife just did the whole text -and-delete thing right in front of me to another guy a few months ago. Now she's pregnant with his kid.
As for the topless pic, no touch, no foul I say. If she goes off the handle over that, she won't stick with you through real rough spots in a relationship/marriage. But just my $.02
I know this but it does help if you know you are.Quote:
Originally Posted by toxxxic
why didnt you divorce her? Why bother putting up with her?Quote:
Originally Posted by xcodegt
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Originally Posted by xcodegt
And you still call her your wife? Wtf mate?
and I'm not trying to make light of your situation by any means but dude, that is the kind of shit you don't share on a web forum.
Fuck. Shit. Damn. I know that has to suck, brah.
I say dump the little 18 year old.
She seriously got mad over some boobies on the computer? That is some stupid shit right there. The only way that would make any sense at all is if she is an extreme bible hugger, otherwise, dump her asap.
I hope you didn't spend much on the ring, and don't you think being with someone for just a year is a little too soon to be popping the question?
BobbyFresh said it first, call the whole thing off. I will tell you what happened with me. I got engaged to a girl that was 18 that had self conscious issues. She didnt like porn, didnt want me hanging out with friends that were girls, tried to control me, would manipulate any situation to her advantage, would play all the stupid little games that young girls do. She was a bitch. I ignored all the signs and still got married. We didnt last two years, hell we were in marriage counseling before 1 year. Save yourself the time, money, drama and call it off. She wont change.
I dont at allQuote:
Originally Posted by The Creeper
When YOU know you know. The other person might not.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Creeper