so i gotz a problem

[jhadleyh]

so i just found out my great grandmother died tonight and the funeral is on friday...i havent seen her in almost 5 years. here's the problem my friends wedding is on friday and im the best man....what should i do go to be in the wedding or go to the funeral. I know most of you are going to say i should go to the funeral, but its almost 900 miles away...What should i do IA.

Im lookin for some good advice this is stressing me out pretty bad

[IndianStig]

I would send flowers to the funeral and attend the wedding and try and have a good time.

[Bruce Leroy]

wedding

[Scotsman]

I would send flowers to the funeral and attend the wedding and try and have a good time.

i agree with this one , i'm sure she would understand

[MINI]

Wedding.

[jhadleyh]

I would send flowers to the funeral and attend the wedding and try and have a good time.

thanks ill prolly do that...i was just scared my family would get mad at me, I was the first great grandchild and didn't want them thinking i didn't care

[uproot]

Wedding.

[Elbow]

Damn sorry to hear that, I would tell the family about the wedding, send a card and flowers, and get out there another chance you get to visit with family and such.

[Scotsman]

thanks ill prolly do that...i was just scared my family would get mad at me, I was the first great grandchild and didn't want them thinking i didn't care

ask your parents and see what they say

[jhadleyh]

ask your parents and see what they say

im sure she will tell me to go to the wedding I just kinda feel guilty...but i know im not doing anything wrong

[Scotsman]

im sure she will tell me to go to the wedding I just kinda feel guilty...but i know im not doing anything wrong

like Simmon said , just try to go see all the family as soon as you can , i'm sure they will understand , and sorry for your loss

[Arm&hammer]

that's a tough one.
if it was just a regular wedding i'd say go to the funeral. but in this case id go to the wedding and visit her grave later.

[jhadleyh]

thanks for the advice guys

[Zodiac]

do a poll but i say wedding.

[eraser4g63]

Wedding, celebrate the start of a new life, send your condolences for the passing of one. I personally did not attend my own grandma's funeral and she help to raise me, I prefer to remember people as they were.

[Catnip]

Wedding like everyone else said.

The family might not be happy with you, but I'm willing to bet your great grandmother would be understanding. Send flowers and try to visit as soon as you can (or before) the wedding.

[RL...]

I would send flowers to the funeral and attend the wedding and try and have a good time.

Yes, it wouldn't do neither her nor you any god to inconvenience yourself and your friend to go to the funeral. What matter is that you remember/appreciate her, and she'll live forever in your mind.

[Catnip]

Yes, it wouldn't do neither her nor you any god to inconvenience yourself and your friend to go to the funeral. What matter is that you remember/appreciate her, and she'll live forever in your mind.

For once I agree with NutTugg3r

[IMPORTchic]

Wedding.

[TheGodfather]

Funeral.

Family> all.

But that's me.

[Dr.G35]

wedding.

[thepolecat]

not a tough one- flowers to show condolences and go to the wedding- your best friend is alive and has been planning this for a while and if you back out it will be a huge pain in the ass to fix that at this point.

[Paul]

wedding and here are the reasons why...

1) grandma is gone and won't know
2) you can send flowers and funerals aren't fun
3) don't have to remember grandma in a casket but during good times in your head
4) being best man is much more rewarding
5) guaranteed bride maid pussy
6) milf hunting at the reception for those cougars wanting piece of a lad while her husband is talking to other dudes about golf
7) you have a great chance of getting plastered and banging other random chicks or making a fool of yourself

wedding > funeral

[teh bri]

Wedding, just because i don't do well at funerals.. but that's just me.


If i were you, i'd send some really nice flowers, and attend the wedding.