First of all, I am happily married.

I do however, have a thought as to why females may tend to flock more so to married/attached men. If a man is already married or claimed by another female, then he obviously possesses qualities that another female finds attractive. There is something about him that lends to the idea that he is capable of maintaining a functioning relationship.... and that is attractive. OR... they are just looking for a "fling," and a married man is their outlet.

A ring on the finger is an instant "on" for a lot of women. I can't say that I have ever been that female who was more attracted to married men because I have a conscience that eats me alive. I could never get past the thought of being in his wife's shoes. I have and always will respect the sanctity of marriage. After going out with my husband, I can say that it is true... A lot of women love married men.