So what do YOU consider cheating?

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by IMPORTchic

Both of ya'll are right!! Emotional is WAYYY worse than physical....

I would KILL a dude if he cheated on me though and I had involved myself for soooo long and was in love and attached. THat is just wrong. If you are not happy enough with someone in the first place to even contemplate cheating then you just need to break up with them before hand. I have been in a situation once in my life where I was just casually dating someone and could not quit thinking about another person....SO....I left the person I was dating for the person that I obviously was falling in love with!

No since in living a lie.....if you want to hoe around, just do it, but on someoen elses time or better yet your OWN!

agreed

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by lcortes32

Damn all 3 thats a killer Mix

i would like to see a pic of you

and yeah i guess what yall aresaying does make sense.

Reformated my computer. Don't have any current photos of me on. My avatar is the only one I have.

People that cheat have no morals in my personal opinion. If not that, they simply don't care about who they hurt which makes me sick.

**Catnip** · 03-10-2009, 12:37 PM

Originally Posted by IMPORTchic

Both of ya'll are right!! Emotional is WAYYY worse than physical....

I would KILL a dude if he cheated on me though and I had involved myself for soooo long and was in love and attached. THat is just wrong. If you are not happy enough with someone in the first place to even contemplate cheating then you just need to break up with them before hand. I have been in a situation once in my life where I was just casually dating someone and could not quit thinking about another person....SO....I left the person I was dating for the person that I obviously was falling in love with!

No since in living a lie.....if you want to hoe around, just do it, but on someoen elses time or better yet your OWN!

+1

No use in starting something if you're gonna hurt that person by cheating.

**lcortes32** · 03-10-2009, 12:42 PM

Originally Posted by SlowsterCivy

Reformated my computer. Don't have any current photos of me on. My avatar is the only one I have.

People that cheat have no morals in my personal opinion. If not that, they simply don't care about who they hurt which makes me sick.

Again it makes Sense..

Clear your PMs

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 12:45 PM

It sucks when you love someone and you find out they have cheated on you. Its like they didn't even care and then they tell you that they do care about you!! WTF??

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 12:57 PM

Originally Posted by lcortes32

Again it makes Sense..

Clear your PMs

Pms cleared.

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 12:58 PM

Originally Posted by SlowsterCivy

Wait, Xrunner I thought you had a pregnant girlfriend you were staying with?

Well she cheated on me and her ass got kicked to the curb. I doubt if the baby is mine. This thread has nothing to do with her or that situation though.

**IMPORTchic** · 03-10-2009, 12:59 PM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

It sucks when you love someone and you find out they have cheated on you. Its like they didn't even care and then they tell you that they do care about you!! WTF??

Yeppp.....I was cheated on through a 3yr relationship....I found out at the end of the 2nd year and continued to put up with him b/c he made me think that no one else would love me and I was too young to know better. THAT sucked. I lived and learned though...so now days...I stand up for myself!!

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

It sucks when you love someone and you find out they have cheated on you. Its like they didn't even care and then they tell you that they do care about you!! WTF??

Yep, its a bad feeling when you find out the person that says they love you is lying to you and messing around with some other guy five minutes later.

**Catnip** · 03-10-2009, 01:04 PM

Originally Posted by X-Runner

Yep, its a bad feeling when you find out the person that says they love you is lying to you and messing around with some other guy five minutes later.

I'd shank her juggular with a blunt object.

That ish wouldn't fly.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 01:10 PM

Originally Posted by IMPORTchic

Yeppp.....I was cheated on through a 3yr relationship....I found out at the end of the 2nd year and continued to put up with him b/c he made me think that no one else would love me and I was too young to know better. THAT sucked. I lived and learned though...so now days...I stand up for myself!!

Yea as I have done the same thing. I was young as well. And still am but this was when I was 18. Im 20 now so..... When i find something out like that i kick them to the curb and say bye, and never look back on it. Friends really help you through alot also.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 01:13 PM

Originally Posted by X-Runner

Well she cheated on me and her ass got kicked to the curb. I doubt if the baby is mine. This thread has nothing to do with her or that situation though.

Don't blame you. I'd kick anyone to the cub that cheated as well. You might want to find out when the baby gets here if it is yours though to make sure. Even if she's the type to sleep around.

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by SlowsterCivy

Don't blame you. I'd kick anyone to the cub that cheated as well. You might want to find out when the baby gets here if it is yours though to make sure. Even if she's the type to sleep around.

I will and if the babys mine then great, Ill take care of my baby. It all went down the day before valentines day and then she called on valentines day crying saying she loved me and wanted to spend the day with me. I said "well I don't want to spend it with you" and hung up.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 02:32 PM

ouch that must have sucked that day.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 02:38 PM

I'da been so pissed.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 02:41 PM

Originally Posted by SlowsterCivy

I'da been so pissed.

X2....... Did you get her anything for V-day?

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 02:43 PM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

X2....... Did you get her anything for V-day?

Ohhh! I get it now. I thought when you quoted you were speaking to me, lol my bad.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 02:56 PM

LOL. I hope he didn't get her anything for V-day though

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 03:25 PM

No, not a thing!

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 03:28 PM

Good man. That would have made it worse. So what happened to you SlowsterCivy?

**The Ninja** · 03-10-2009, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by Maniacurabus06

I haven't gotten any pussy in a week - probably that's why... luckly that'll end TONIGHT though! :p

But my definition of cheating is; kissing another dude that is NOT me or getting physically involved with some random fuck. Of course, I've never experienced someone cheating on me but I'm sure it's gotta suck.

Thats because you fuck with bitches that are good at it.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 03:41 PM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

Good man. That would have made it worse. So what happened to you SlowsterCivy?

What do you mean what happen to me dear?

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 03:42 PM

You said you got cheated on didn't you? I was wondering what happened if you don't mind me asking?

**X-Runner** · 03-10-2009, 03:45 PM

I don't think she did...

This thread came from the other night though, I went to hang out with her and one of her friends was there that I had never met before. Anyways me and her quickly became friends and got a little flirty with each other. So for some reason it set my mind to thinking about what others consider cheating and a bunch of other random thoughts.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 03:46 PM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

You said you got cheated on didn't you? I was wondering what happened if you don't mind me asking?

I walked in on him cheating. His bedroom door was cracked open, saw him and his ex girlfriend in bed together, not in "action" but it was obvious they weren't havin' tea and cookies. Was to be expected. Happen when I was 19. I'm 24 now. He was 22 at the time. With me being a virgin espeically at that time..i didn't expect anything less really.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 03:46 PM

Originally Posted by X-Runner

I don't think she did...

This thread came from the other night though, I went to hang out with her and one of her friends was there that I had never met before. Anyways me and her quickly became friends and got a little flirty with each other. So for some reason it set my mind to thinking about what others consider cheating and a bunch of other random thoughts.

I didn't say I was cheated on you are right, lol. He just thinks i did. I have been cheated on but didn't comment about it bc it was not my thread.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 03:48 PM

Oh. Sorry to hear that.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 04:00 PM

Im all confused.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 04:02 PM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

Im all confused.

You thought I had said that I had been cheated on but I said no such thing in reference to this thread of X-Runners. When you asked how i was cheated on. I to was confused on where you got that I said i was cheated on. So when you said this, I just went ahead and shared my cheated on experience/story, so there wouldn't be confusion. I am not sure where you read that I said i was cheated on until I actually told the story.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 04:33 PM

I must have miss read something. SOrry about that.

**NVEOUS** · 03-10-2009, 04:34 PM

I probably got two posts mixed up most likely.

**SlowsterCivy** · 03-10-2009, 04:34 PM

Originally Posted by NVEOUS

I probably got two posts mixed up most likely.

Not a problem dear.

**redrumracer** · 05-10-2009, 03:26 AM

no such thing as cheating if yall are swingers.

**Got Milk?** · 05-10-2009, 10:31 AM

having to do these things with someome other than your girl is cheatting:kissing on the lips, french kissing, having sex. Just talking, flirting is not cheating in my book.

**B18c1Turboed** · 05-10-2009, 01:14 PM

Is sticking the tip in only cheating?

**LizBiz** · 05-10-2009, 01:33 PM

Originally Posted by Got Milk?

flirting is not cheating in my book.

Reps. Not too many of those out there.

**X-Runner** · 05-10-2009, 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by LizBiz

Reps. Not too many of those out there.

I would have to agree because otherwise that would be a double standard for me lol

**whatever210** · 05-10-2009, 01:44 PM

if your not married then its not cheating. fuck it. theres nothing to tie you down to one girl if your not married

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