Man I'm sorry that sucks. But imo you need to be comfortable with yourself before entering a relationship. While having someone to get you through tough times is a lot easier, what happens is you become too dependent on that person...sort of like a drug (eehmm, ehhm...drugs are bad don't do drugs I'm knda getting out of a slump right now, so yes I would say that things always get better. Again I'm sorry bro.