I always stick by the rule... why buy the cow if you get free milk. I guess there is a exception to every rule, but the girls that are "freaks" generally give you the milk without buying the cow. Usually they will try to cut you off at some point to try to force the relationship, but i've long lost any bit of respect i have for them at that point anyway
Originally Posted by Tiff-O-Bitties
how many dates to consider you "not being easy".
a girl that makes me wait a month or more... I consider "not easy". if i'm beatin cheeks within a week. I consider that easy
I don't go by a "date count." I think it's all in the way you carry and present yourself... Feel Me?
Plus, a girl has needs too... She may just be looking for a one nighter just as much as a guy is sometimes... If she's ready to settle down and "hold out" more power to her... I'm not afraid to jump in the sack in I'm in the mood.. Doesn't mean I'm easy, and it doesn't mean that I'm not ready to settle down. I don't present myself like a whore (not like I used to anyway, lol!) Therefore, I don't consider myself to be a whore. Numbers are just... numbers. Who cares?
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LOL!!!
i just threw up...
some people care.. and as you and i know there is a HUGE double standard when it comes to numbers girls vs guys...I don't go by a "date count." I think it's all in the way you carry and present yourself... Feel Me?
Plus, a girl has needs too... She may just be looking for a one nighter just as much as a guy is sometimes... If she's ready to settle down and "hold out" more power to her... I'm not afraid to jump in the sack in I'm in the mood.. Doesn't mean I'm easy, and it doesn't mean that I'm not ready to settle down. I don't present myself like a whore (not like I used to anyway, lol!
personally i don't want to be a guy that has whored himself around and i also don't want to be with girls that have whored themselves out either...
(and no, there are no undertones here.. i'm not saying you're a whore or anything of the sort... just stating my opinion!! lol
Jason and i differ on this but
I really honestly dont care about how many guys a girl has been with. I mean within reason. If shes a cheater, then i stay away.
in my experience ive dated girls that have been with 2 guys, and girls that have been with 30+. THe sex was MUCH better with the girls that have had more partners, 100000 fold. But its a catch 22 because usually someone that is promiscuous isnt going to put YOUR best interests at heart. They are always looking for something "better"
Ive had pretty decent relationships with both kinds of girls, some that have had alot of partners some that didnt. They all ended eventually (obviously cause im single now) so i cant really say one is better than the next.
In terms of the double standard, its out there for sure. A girl sleeps with 20 guys an shes a whore, a guy sleeps with 20 girls and its ordinary.
Would i like to settle down? sure, eventually, prob not right now, i got too much going on, im too selfish. I only care about myself and my business. I gave up too much of myself an my life in the last 5 years to have any kind of compromises right now.
The BI thing is prob cool in the beginning, but if you really end up caring about the person, it can absolutely destroy a relationship. Ive heard too many friends talk about how everything was great "until the threesome". Its natural that people get jealous, or greedy, etc.
If it was a girl i REALLY cared about , i dont think i could do it. Because it would always be in the back of my mind, it would be a trust issue i dont think i could get over.
Now if it was just some girl i was dating, well, ive never been in that position, no pun intended.
(tiff of course none of this applies to you, im talking pre-tiff mike timeline)
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sorry but i dont think i could do that. even if it is another girl she is with.
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i've always said the same thing.......
i don't think i could have a threesome with someone i cared about +1... it could cause serious problems in the relationship....
but if it was two girls i didn't have feelings for.. and i was in the right mood... well.. who knows!! lol
Of course, we've had this talk already.. I know.(tiff of course none of this applies to you, im talking pre-tiff mike timeline
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Oh yea. Definitely a double standard...some people care.. and as you and i know there is a HUGE double standard when it comes to numbers girls vs guys...
personally i don't want to be a guy that has whored himself around and i also don't want to be with girls that have whored themselves out either...
(and no, there are no undertones here.. i'm not saying you're a whore or anything of the sort... just stating my opinion!! lol
I don't care what people think though and really never have... Obviously! Plus.. A girl's gotta have fun (that's my excuse, lol!)
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yep im in that situation right now. she not a freak tho. i guess i just got that bad apple in the bi bunch
yes, i have in the past, but nothing other than fooling around ever came of it..
IMO if you're with someone who is bi or straight.. if that person really loved you and you really loved them... would you actually want someone else in the bedroom???
call me crazy... but i wouldn't... i'm a very loyal person.. and once i'm at the point of caring that much for someone well it's about them and only them...
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