It's all about who you choose as friends. Choose wisely and you'll be good. Find people that share a lot in common with you and will support you when you need it. Not some douchebags that just want someone to get wasted with and will flake on you when you're in need. I used to have a bunch of people that I thought were friends, but they were just using me because my lifestyle was better than theirs. F*ck that. Become friends with quality people and you won't have these kinds of problems.