To add to the significant other part, I told her half the story of one deal, If I told her the other half, one side of my face would be in pain for quite some time...then she'd get over it.

"That was back in 2006 baby c'mon... we weren't even married yet"

I got really close to doing something that woulda fked up my relationship with her...REALLY CLOSE.

But i had to do it to learn!