Quote Originally Posted by Mr. KiDD
well i guess what i mean is if you sleep together too fast, then you kinda MAKE the relationship ABOUT sex. Rather than trying to have a good foundation to build on, THEN experieince sex.

If you REALLY like someone, and you hold off on the sex for a few days, hours, weeks whatever, it usually ends up being a much healthier relationship.

All my relationships in the past that started off from just fucking all the time, after 3 months they SUCK. Cuase you dont find anything else remotely attractive about them, you just were with them for the sex.

If you really get to know a person, and REALLY LIKE THEM, then i find it much easier for the relationship to last, and to keep both people interested.

The trick is finding the girl that not only peaks your mental curiosity, but is a freak in the bed too.

Those are almost impossible to find, notice i said, ALMOST.

of course this is talking about the ONE, if you are just out to go whoreing, who gives a fuck, slay as much va-jay-jay as you can
Quoted for the motha fuckin truth.

To the OP: Whats the rush for marriage. Sure u like her and shit but come on. Why rush into plannning a marriage. Things change a lot when u move into the real world and have a full time job and move in together. You are planning to fail. If u marry her in the fall what will change.......nothing except the fact that it will be a bitch to break up